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i dated an aspie guy, 6 months l8r im an aspie do i tel?

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shud i tell him?
yes 69%  69%  [ 9 ]
no 31%  31%  [ 4 ]
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wob182
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09 Apr 2008, 7:13 pm

angelgirl1224 wrote:
Yeah well the whole catching it off him doest make sense. You cant catch AS.

Yeh i was wondering if you thought there would be a chance between you two because you have As as welll...
I think you should tell him however. I think it is worth telling him, that way you might be able to make sense of things.

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THANK YOU some one who actualy gave me an answer lol
i did try ringing him b4 but he was busy so maybe i'll tell him tomorrow...i got so nervous tho as thought it was like telling him im pregant like it cud be really really gud like he share tips with me and help etc or it cud go really bad like 'i told u so' 'u were always strange and this is y this went wrong and this. it all make sense haha ur sucha hypercrit'

well maybe im exgaggrating a bit with the negative answer but that is what scares me...and how do i say ...oh hi school is going well and by the way i have aspgers too , well see ya!"

man oh man



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09 Apr 2008, 7:22 pm

Welll obviously your worrying about how hed react. But seeing as he also has As, i am sure he would understand how hard it is to tell people. There is the risk that he might react badly, but then again he might not.
you should tell him though. Gd luck with it.

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09 Apr 2008, 9:51 pm

wob182 wrote:
Ok so 6 months ago i was in a long distance realtionship with a guy with aspgers i didnt get what it was at the time but over time it really showed it ugly side , but we still got on and everything. I fell in love and he broke up bcoz he thought we wanted diffrent things. it took me 6 months to get over him and last week ive been dignosed with it to.

i wonder if i shud tell him? a part of me thinks he start pointing out all my bad aspie habbits that might have ruined the realtionship..or shud i just carry on learning mor bout it without him ?


How about the next step? Like talking on phone?

You seriously can't rely 100% on internet chatting for dating.



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10 Apr 2008, 5:49 pm

i just told him, he seems to be taking it very well. He's suprised he think he cud usually spot an aspie. 'you must be borderline'
aparently, that has been the reaction of a few people "you must have it mildly' though those people are all neurotypical