Does anyone here ever have trouble with choices?

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Sometimes. I like to follow, kinda be told what to do.

Clothes no. (1) does it fit? = yes (2) is it uncomfortable? = no (3) Is it expensive? = no (4) Bought
Thats how I would be, I've never bought any clothing on my own, because when I chose what to wear my siblings got "embarassed"
Example: In 4th grade winter. Monday- Forest green turle neck and jogging pants
Tuesady- Navy blue turle neck and jogging pants
Wednesday - Black turle neck and jogging pants
Thursday- White turle neck and jogging pants
Friday - Burgundy/Maroon turle neck and jogging pants
Next week much of the same

Yes. Usually when I don't really care (which is most things). I've been yelled at a lot by my family because I can't/won't make up my mind about different things.

Yes.

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I don't have problems making decisions.

Yes. When I go to the grocery store I buy the same kinds of food each time. Trying new things is too much of a stressor.

I find it so, so stressful. The environment of a store is in itself stressful, then I have to think about what I want v what I need, if it's kosher (going to a kosher-only store makes this easier), if it's ethical, if foreign organic that's been flown is less ethical than local non-organic, if the packaging is recyclable...often it all gets too much and I end up on the verge of meltdown in the supermarket. I should just order on-line...plus if they don't have what I planned to buy I just don't know what to do and get upset

Sometimes I wish I could get my parents to make some of my descisions for me, but the really big ones they often tell me to make myself, and that is scary if the big ones have big consequnces..

yeah i find it so hard to make decisions!! !
Ive tried making lists of advantages, disavantages for one thing
and then the only thing or things.
itss sooo hard though!! !! !
if ther are loads of choices it is extremely
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If its between two or more things that I want, but can't afford but one, I'm gonna be there all day. I'm like a kid in that respect.

Yes.
I have trouble making a decision if I should do something or not. For example, I can spend up to an hour deciding if I actually NEED to eat, or if I am just bored or tired.
Although ,one of my most hardest decisions to make on a daily basis is..."What should I have to eat now?".
Most of the time I will stare into the cupboards for 15-20 minutes and then just decide to not eat anything because I can't make a choice!

One decision I have been struggling with lately is what to study. I've thought about it for weeks, have written down three choices, but not sure of which one as I'm not sure if I will make the right choice.

Last week I wanted to buy shower gel and I spent ages sniffing them and looking at their labels. Eventually I started to worry my shopping companion would get annoyed at me so I just picked something that was close to me. Of course I wasn't happy with my choice later.
I always eat the same food so I don't have to make decisions about that. And I'm a vegetarian so I don't have to choose from many options in restaurants.
Oh, and I'm almost 23 and I still haven't decided what my sexual orientation is. Sometimes coin flipping helps with decisions but not in this case.