Do your either of your parents have an ASD?

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08 May 2008, 3:40 am

Not that I know of but my Dad's cousin has sceriena.



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08 May 2008, 3:51 am

I suspect both my parents have ASD. My mom to a lesser degree.


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08 May 2008, 4:54 am

My dad has AS and his sister some traits...she insisted that the vegetable soup was to be drained every time they had it and because she was the eldest she got her way, with her brothers having liquid instead of soup :P



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08 May 2008, 8:14 am

None of my parents have AS, but Autism, introversion, and mathematical ability run in my mom's side of the family. My maternal grandfather, who was an accountant, most likely had AS; he was very quiet, stimmed, hated small talk, and was very picky with his food; he also loved math and physics in an aspie obsession sort of way. My relatives often comment how similar I am to my grandfather. I have an aunt with LFA, and a great aunt (who was also an accountant) who I suspect has AS.


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08 May 2008, 9:39 am

My father has AS, undiagnosed, but suspected from doctors. He refuses to accept it. I have nothing to do with him anyway so I don't care.


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08 May 2008, 9:42 am

i suspect my dad has AS, he has obsessive and repetitive behaviour normally expressed though his hobby of stamp collecting, he can only speak about things he has a interest in, has narrow interests, cant express his emotions well, gets annoyed when he cant do his stamps. he has also mentioned to me that he finds organising his stamp collection to be very relaxing.

although my mum has mentioned that there is some autism on her side of the family. *shrugs*



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08 May 2008, 9:55 am

My father has a lot of ADD traits. My paternal grandmother probably has Asperger's syndrome.


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08 May 2008, 10:03 am

dad is aspie [in his sixties,and through choice undiagnosed],and according to sister [a councilor and pysch. expert],mum is not on the spectrum but fits various mental illnesses and pds-she has hallucinations for example,she sees people sat in trees trying to speak to her.
mum says she thinks her sister has as,and her sisters son has it to,she has always gone on about him being 'slow' when she didnt know what as was,and her sister does seem like an aspie the more am hear about her.
am have lf classic autism [and an informal sub category of explosive autism] from dads side as his brother is aspie and his other brother [NT] has a autie son as well.
sister is also aspie,though undiagnosed like dad,neither of them want it though are aspie enough to get it.


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08 May 2008, 10:07 am

I think my parents are more likely carriers with some traits, maybe on the spectrum but so far up they don't/didn't need a diagnosis to get help. I don't know much about my fathers side of the family. But I'd say I most likely got it from my mom's side. My grandmother told me I had family that were like me, I've just never met them because they don't leave their homes to go to family functions.


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08 May 2008, 10:53 am

Social_Fantom wrote:
I suspect my dad was, but now that he is dead, I'll never know for sure. But he had a lot of the symptoms I do.

Same here. Also, my maternal grandmother may have had some traits. I rather suspect people with AS-like traits subconsciously feel attracted to one another, so that the next generation gets it from both sides.


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08 May 2008, 2:39 pm

There are traits floating all around my family, on both sides, but I don't think my parents are really on the spectrum anywhere. They're both fairly good socially, my dad's a little bit introverted and can't stand crowds, but I've never noticed him doing anything I'd really call stimming.

When I told my mom I had it, she said I must have it mild, because I have a second cousin who has autism, and "he's in his own little world", she says. My grandmother has a few traits, she thinks she has RLS (restless leg syndrome) and she didn't learn to drive until her late 30s I think, and still doesn't really drive.

Dunno really...I guess a bunch of the traits just came together in me :x



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08 May 2008, 2:46 pm

ADoyle wrote:
I think it's possible that those traits do run in my family, but mostly there's depression on my mom's side and bipolar disorder on my dad's side. I also have a cousin with developmental delays because he was born prematurely. When he was born, most babies who were born that early died soon after birth, so he was lucky to have survived.


well, in my dad's family I have an autistic uncle. And my dad, I think, shows some AS traits. I'm thinking about him lately. Anyways, I think it is hereditary.


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08 May 2008, 4:44 pm

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Jennyfoo wrote:
My dad almost certainly is and so was his father. My dad was dxed with antisocial personality disorder and speculatively diagnosed with bipolar disorder by another psych in his 40's when my folks were going through marriage counseling and then court-ordered psychological evaluations during the ensuing custody dispute when they split up. My mother was dxed with Munchausens by proxy and Borderline Personality disorder during those court-ordered evaluations. I got screwed from both sides. Haha!

My father was very anti-social, awkward, smart, repititive behaviors and lots of stimming(always drove Mom nuts with his "nervous energy"). He also had very narrow interests and obsessions- still does. He would never entertain the idea that he's on the spectrum and still doesn't believe that my daughter is either, despite her obviously clear and more severe signs of ASD. I also suspect that 2 of my brothers have ASD and all my other siblings have traits for sure. My father was and is very uncouth, insensitive, and speaks his mind despite how it will affect others. His father was much the same and so is his older brother.


Funny, I often read much the same thing about aspy husbands whose wives are frustrated. I decided not to turn out like the aspy husbands I read about.


Darn, could you please talk to MY AS husband about that? LOL! He's so in to his obsessions and so lazy and disorganized it drives me nuts! But I'm the one with all the stimming and "nervous energy" just like my dad and that drives HIM nuts. LOL!