Oh thanks for coming back and replying Nambo, I thought with your mysterious job you really had been kidnapped! I was picturing you being some kind of super secret spy LOL.
It sounds like you are dealing with it a little better, I'm glad to hear that. I'd be so upset too, I can't STAND people touching my things! But I think it would be far worse if it was a thief or something. At least nothing was taken.
That seems so over the top to call the police like that. I'm surprised the police even took it seriously, usually you have to be missing a whole day before they will even look for you. Crazy. I would be making some kind of complaint I think, even though it's great they came to protect you, it's going overboard to trash someone's house when you have no evidence of foul play. It would be different if someone had seen something odd or there were strange noises at your apartment, or even if your job meant you were dealing with psychopaths and one was stalking you. But...just forgetting to come to work is not a reason to assume you're in danger!