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29 May 2008, 4:52 pm

Tell them you dislike them. There is a difference between that and hate.



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29 May 2008, 4:53 pm

There have been but I have learned that it is better to forgive and forget. But I still keep in mind that some of the people that have betrayed me in the past can no longer be trusted, and these people I speak of are family.


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29 May 2008, 5:16 pm

Not really. I hate some of the things people do, but it is difficult to hate a person.


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29 May 2008, 5:29 pm

^^^

the things they do, yes



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29 May 2008, 6:16 pm

there are many people I do not like and I do hate them they drive me nuts but I dont want them dead because it hurts there friends and family.

in my 10th grade year this girl who I hatted very much because she stoled my first boyfriend and then 2 weeks later desided she never wanted to talk to him again and then she comes to me and is all like I am sorry I should have never took him away from you and going on and on . I really did hate her. In my 11th grade year. She died in a car accident. Did I want her to die yes what happened when she died every one around me that was friends with her where in pain and I hated that I dont like seeing my friends cry..



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29 May 2008, 6:28 pm

I used to hate certain people. I'm not motivated to revenge, I just felt intense loathing every time I saw them enjoying themselves and living blissfully at other's expense. Then that progressed, eventually I felt that feeling of loathing with every person I met. I started to feel like the humans that surrounded me were crawling over everything and draining the resources around me, then leaving nothing but filth behind, all whilst they were quite content with themselves, because they were living only for the chemical rush of organic existence. Like being surrounded by cockroaches, if cockroaches could make up obscene poetic definitions for their biologically driven wants. Of course, being human myself, I then started to somewhat loathe myself, but not as much as them.

I'm beyond all that now. I don't hate anybody. Hate is just a series of chemicals and neurones too, and if I indulge it, i'll be just as gormless as all the others. So I just pity those who are constrained by perception. Now it's just fun. If i'm going to be human, and painfully aware of that fact, I may as well use my perspective to get as much enjoyment as I can from it.


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29 May 2008, 8:17 pm

Yes. There's this one meerkat biogist dude I hate with a passion. The lead biologist on the meerkat manor team. I've never met him but I still don't like him. I saw him in a meerkat documentary and I got this bad feeling about him. I didn't like that he put radio collars on the meerkats, let alone one with an antena so huge ther poor little meerkat could barely fit in her burrow. I never like radio collars on animals. Would you like someone tracking your every move and it seems like they would feel very uncomfortable. Plus it seems like an animal could very easily hang itself by accident with one. I also read an article somewhere about him taking baby meerkats away from their mothers as part of some cruel expirment. I even based the villian in my stories off of him.



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29 May 2008, 8:27 pm

Well, hate is a strong word... but I've used it plenty of times. I was bullied and picked on in school, now I have to put up with my absolutely ret*d sister-in-laws who have no common sense whatsoever and have treated me very badly due to their own ignorance. So while I don't want to see them dead, there are days when I hear myself echoing in my head "god I hate these people".



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29 May 2008, 9:28 pm

I usually just feel indifference. I accept that I can't change others' behavior or personalities, so I leave it at that.



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29 May 2008, 10:34 pm

I don't hate anyone. It would be a waste of energy and thought.


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29 May 2008, 11:12 pm

Stupid politicians , so I love that V movie since all the politicians die in the end...


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30 May 2008, 12:04 am

I dislike people but I don't hate em.



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30 May 2008, 7:28 am

Not really. I dislike heaps of people, some a lot, but hate is a bit much.



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30 May 2008, 7:34 am

I guess I don't "hate" anyone, but even if I did, I wouldn't want to see them dead. I'm against capital punishment. :wink:


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30 May 2008, 8:03 am

I tend to hate groups more than individuals.

For instance... I hate christians, muslims, americans, french, old people, medical students, police, S*ny employees, neurotypicals in general.... just about anyone stupid.


Yet I will treat any given individual from any of those groups in a completely neutral manner as long as they are not displaying characteristics distinct to that group. I am on perfectly amicable terms with quite a few christians, on the simple basis that if they mention the word "Jesus" in my presence they know I will rip their throat out, metaphorically speaking.
That is to say I hate the christianity / islam / americanness / frenchness / old age / medi-exclusivism / policeyness / S*nyphilia / neurotypical stupidity..... rather than the individuals who bare them.


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30 May 2008, 8:14 am

hate to am at least,means not like.
am hate a few,and it's all caused by long term damage by them,every day is new so its all gone out of head by next day,
but if its a daily thing,am can start to hate,and it usually can be so much that am dont want to be in the same building as them.


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