Are you an introvert or an extrovert?

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KingChaosNinja
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31 Aug 2008, 2:00 pm

I know I don't need to take the test, I tend to be extremely extroverted. I feel like I have a lot I just need to say and I'm looking for people to listen and try to keep a conversation going. I want to calm back down again and go back to being low key but then I just feel lonely and depressed.


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31 Aug 2008, 2:10 pm

Severely Introverted.



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31 Aug 2008, 2:29 pm

I remember seeing this transmission of The One Show and being fascinated by it then.

I've not done the lemon test, as I can't be arsed to buy a reel of sticky tape (unless there's something in that link that provides an alternative (I skimmed the test details proper)).

But I've been always very successful at the 'How many <insert dry food item like cracker, weetabix, etc> can you eat ?' type competitions, because ANY kind of food makes me salivate and I can eat whole packs of crackers and stuff.
Not particularly useful, admittedly - but hey, one day .... .

I took this as the direct equivalent of the lemon test, so assume I would have a high introversion score (not that you'd know it from the way I project in here).

The problem introverts face is overstimulation.
The main problem extroverts face is boredom (understimulation).

Better under than overstimulated - since overstimulation is generally manifest as anxiety ... one of the least pleasant responses we have.

Boredom's easy to deal with - just go somewhere interesting or pick up a book.



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31 Aug 2008, 5:35 pm

I'm both. It depends on who I'm around. I'm introverted overall, because I cannot stand being around people and I'm happiest when I'm alone in my room. However, when I'm with my mother or with my handful of good friends, I'm the loudest and most talkative. I tend to dominate conversations, because I'm a rambling Aspie who drones on about her "special interests." :lol:
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31 Aug 2008, 5:59 pm

MemberSix wrote:

The main problem extroverts face is boredom (understimulation).

Better under than overstimulated - since overstimulation is generally manifest as anxiety ... one of the least pleasant responses we have.

Boredom's easy to deal with - just go somewhere interesting or pick up a book.


that resumes me!


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31 Aug 2008, 8:20 pm

Im scored a 16 which isnt really a surprise. I just realized that all of my friends are introverted. 5/6 of them have expressed to me they dont like being around people at times. Extroverted people seem to annoy me often times.



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31 Aug 2008, 9:05 pm

I am naturally an introvert...but I force myself to act extroverted enough to where I kind of became that way...in otherwords the "acting" started becoming natural to me. So while I still don't like going and being social, usually it's preparing, and going that I don't like, once I get there I am usually ok. Anticipation and what if's are what really gets me.



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31 Aug 2008, 11:35 pm

I scored a 19, which they consider to be "extremely introverted." I have no friends, so in a sense this is true. Their description of introverts and extraverts, of course, mixes things that apply to me:

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Extroverts perform better in jobs or tasks involving high rewards (money, good feedback, prestige, etc) and are less distracted by arousing conditions (noise, music, audience) and get bored with silence. However, they tend to have shorter attention spans, trade speed for accuracy (only when the task is tedious and uninteresting and of low importance), and do badly in long, vigilance tasks.

Introverts pay better attention to detail (when the details are of interest to me), do well when they have to avoid punishment (but respond badly to positive rewards), work well in silence (I could go either way equally well), and seem more motivated to acquire knowledge, and are driven by intellectual curiosity rather than performance-goals (my own personal goals drive me much more than generic, imposed goals).