I on the other hand think they are very closely related.
You believe you what you say is the truth. Bur your statement of a real autism is not something generally correct. You say it is, it is your opinion, your vision and your research and you may believe so. But in the end, that is what you believe and nothing more.
I am no more inclined to believe you hold the truth than I am inclined to believe the DSM-IV-TR holds the truth in the matter on how AS should be defined with the inclusion of the term 'symptoms'.
People who are leaning towards the interpretation of DSM-IV-TR of Asperger's believe that handbook holds the general truth by claiming AS is defined purely/partly by symptoms.
If you believe you hold the general truth, then yes, both discussions would indeed be completely different in nature. However, who holds and if any person actually holds the 'general truth' is debatable.
Many people had a vision, discovered a theory, researched to conclude already, so who's to say you're right or wrong as long as you do not indicate others must share you or else are grossly misdirected and confused about reality?
I do not think you want to indicate that and I do not believe you harbour any ill intention (instead, trying to make something good and improve circumstances), but your statements are bordering this indication because you believe so strongly that have concluded and now know something important.
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The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it. Terry Pratchett