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29 Sep 2008, 8:12 pm

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29 Sep 2008, 8:40 pm

I "speak" to people constantly in my head, sometimes mouth the words and look... *ahem* interesting while doing this. Sometimes. Other times people can't tell at all, but I digress.

I usually do this with real people to vent, redo how things "could have gone" or to try and figure out what exactly happen. I also do it for future encounters so that I have some counter arguments or just plain something to say. From time to time I have random "faceless" people just because... I'm usually bored.


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29 Sep 2008, 9:06 pm

Well everyone has a thinking voice in their head, like that interior dialogue that goes on when you're reading or writing something, or figuring stuff out. The difference between that, and having something like multiple personality disorder is knowing that you're doing it. It's like the saying, a sain person thinks they're crazy, a crazy person has no idea they're crazy. So your mulling over the issue, is a sign of good health. I think it also might be a sign of one of the typical problems Aspies tend to have, over thinking, heh.



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29 Sep 2008, 9:15 pm

I do this as well, mostly with people that I know in real life. If there's something I need to discuss with someone, particularly if it's a difficult conversation, I probably have the same conversation at least a dozen times in my head, saying different things and getting different reactions each time. It's like a rehearsal for the real conversation that's about to take place. Doing so really helps me with preparing for every possible outcome, as well as having the right words to say at the right time.



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29 Sep 2008, 10:17 pm

Fayed wrote:
Okay, so I zone out quite often. When I zone out, it is usually due to being bored or stressed. When I am zoned out i am usually talking to people in my head ( I know they aren't real, they're completely imaginary or loosely based on real people). Now i have very extensive dialogs with them, from debating something that's happening in my life, to bouncing ideas off them, to analyze things via them, to just talking with them, to playing out situations that i think may happen, to just playing out situations for fun. Basically I don't socialize much with people in the real world, but I socialize with the people in my head very well.

I was just curious as to if i am the only one who does this? Or am i just going loopy?

PS - Okay upon rereading, I want to clarify something. I know they people aren't real. I realize the way i describe it may make it seem like i see them as not being a part of me, but i know they are completely Fictitious and don't really exist. It was just easier to describe them this way.


Same with me. I do this a lot when driving or alone in my office. I know and am fully aware I am talking to myself. I think it sort of like a stress reliever.


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29 Sep 2008, 10:25 pm

I use to have someone talking in my head, I stabbed him when I stuck a pencil up my nose. :duh:



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29 Sep 2008, 10:43 pm

Fayed wrote:
Okay, so I zone out quite often. When I zone out, it is usually due to being bored or stressed. When I am zoned out i am usually talking to people in my head ( I know they aren't real, they're completely imaginary or loosely based on real people). Now i have very extensive dialogs with them, from debating something that's happening in my life, to bouncing ideas off them, to analyze things via them, to just talking with them, to playing out situations that i think may happen, to just playing out situations for fun. Basically I don't socialize much with people in the real world, but I socialize with the people in my head very well.

I was just curious as to if i am the only one who does this? Or am i just going loopy?


You're not the only one. I used to do exactly that, i don't know when it started but i don't think it was there in my childhood. It stopped this year. Those poor guys in my head went thru thousands of hours of hearing me talk :lmao:

They would never speak, their function was to listen to me.

Nowadays its just my thoughts in my head. I have no public anymore.


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29 Sep 2008, 10:46 pm

I do this. All the time.

Is this not something that NT people do?



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30 Sep 2008, 1:09 am

DevonB wrote:
I even try different responses on the part of the other person so that I have variations available to me to respond with.

That is EXACTLY what I do. I must say, I have never spoken openly about it before, as I always felt people would think of me as crazy though.


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30 Sep 2008, 5:35 am

Ok I do this too, next question is this an ASD thing or something common to most people


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30 Sep 2008, 5:44 am

I'll do it alot!!



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30 Sep 2008, 6:55 am

Dragonfly_Dreams wrote:
I do this. All the time.

Is this not something that NT people do?


I know for sure that they do, nothing unusual/aspie about it. I do it too, all the time. maybe just a little more obsessively than most NTs.


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30 Sep 2008, 6:58 am

I think that as long as you know the people aren't real, then you aren't mad. It's like people with OCD aren't mad because they realise their obsessions and compulsions are irrational.


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30 Sep 2008, 8:12 am

The mind is constantly simulating. This is just how your program has evolved over time in my opinion. It seems you have developed a very active imagination.


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30 Sep 2008, 8:23 am

haha yep. i analyze every possible way a conversation could go, if it happened. this goes along with daydreaming/obsessing about approaching people (especially the opposite sex). i thought it was "normal" until i found out it was an autistic trait a few years ago.



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30 Sep 2008, 8:30 am

Fayed wrote:
Okay, so I zone out quite often. When I zone out, it is usually due to being bored or stressed. When I am zoned out i am usually talking to people in my head ( I know they aren't real, they're completely imaginary or loosely based on real people). Now i have very extensive dialogs with them, from debating something that's happening in my life, to bouncing ideas off them, to analyze things via them, to just talking with them, to playing out situations that i think may happen, to just playing out situations for fun. Basically I don't socialize much with people in the real world, but I socialize with the people in my head very well.

I was just curious as to if i am the only one who does this? Or am i just going loopy?
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nah you're not the only one. i experience the exact same thing. always have done. happens at work most of the time when im working away at something and i'll talk to someone about, or about an unrelated subject. huge conversations that can go on for hours. which is amazing because im a terrible conversationalist in real life. and the people i speak to are usually representations of people in real life who i have put in my head for the conversation for whatever reason. i rekon im going bonkers though. this cannot be an NT thing surely and i would be curious to know how many aspies do it too.