Why cats?
- They're furry, cute and huggable (like teddy bears, but with claws)
My wife told me that my cat jumped into her arms when she was crying about the death of a friend, and licked away her tears.
Had the cat with the kittens come into your house from the street?
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Had the cat with the kittens come into your house from the street?
Yes, she had been abandoned by owners (from a few houses away) who moved out and just left the cat behind.
Awww poor thing And how did she get into your house?
Kudos to her for her survival skills. And to your cat for letting you know.
And where is she and her family nowadays?
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I'm guessing the house had a cat flap?
Some areas are actually safe enough to let cats outside. Not here--we have roads with careless drivers, and plenty of people willing to kick or otherwise abuse a cat. Even in the country it's not completely safe; there are coyotes and idiots with shotguns.
Cats aren't "autistic". Their neurology is different from humans' neurology. If a human acted like a cat, he would likely be diagnosed with autism (and probably narcolepsy) but you have to remember they aren't little furry humans, autistic or not; they're cats and it's best to take them on their own terms.
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All Cats are Autistic (v1.3)
Based on the DSM-IV Criteria
A. A total of six (or more) items from (1), (2), and (3), with at least two from (1), and one each from (2) and (3):
(1) qualitative impairment in social interaction, as manifested by at least two of the following:
(a) marked impairment in the use of multiple nonverbal behaviours, such as eye-to- eye gaze, facial expression, body postures, and gestures to regulate social interaction:
Except when agitated, interpretive behaviour is limited. Cats show very little change in facial expression and posture is usually relaxed. Eye-to-eye contact is difficult, as cats are seemingly unable to bear looking into the eyes for a period of time.
(b) failure to develop peer relationships appropriate to developmental level:
There is a marked deficiency in friendly social interaction with other cats. Cats must have been in consistent contact with each other for an extended period of time (delayed achievement of "comfort zone") before interacting in any sociable manner and the relationship is tenuous even then. This often applies to interaction with humans, as well.
(c) a lack of spontaneous seeking to share enjoyment, interests, or achievements with other people (e.g., by a lack of showing, bringing, or pointing out objects of interest):
Cats do not point or retrieve objects for others. Cats are not concerned about whether or not their interests are similar to those of other entities. Cats find your interest irrelevant.
(d) lack of social or emotional reciprocity:
Cats are concerned with their own interests only. They will not lick your fur for the sole purpose of bringing you enjoyment. If they do so at all, it's either because you taste good or are dirty and need cleaning.
(2) qualitative impairments in communication, as manifested by at least one of the following:
(a) delay in, or total lack of, the development of spoken language (not accompanied by an attempt to compensate through alternative modes of communication such as gesture or mime):
Many cats do not speak, or do so only occasionally. Nor are they able to gesture their needs beyond the very basic, such as leading you to the empty food dish.
(b) in individuals with adequate speech, marked impairment in the ability to initiate or sustain a conversation with others:
Cats do not converse well. Even in situations where it appears they are carrying on a dialogue with a person, mutual misunderstanding of each other's meaning is inevitable.
(c) stereotyped and repetitive use of language or idiosyncratic language:
All cats with speech perseverate on the word "meow" and its variations.
(d) lack of varied, spontaneous make-believe play or social imitative play appropriate to developmental level:
Often, older cats will engage in play which, on a developmental level, is more appropriate to kittens. Their pretend and imitative abilities are limited as well.
(3) restricted, repetitive, and stereotyped patterns of behaviour, interests, and activities as manifested by at least one of the following:
(a) encompassing preoccupation with one or more stereotyped and restricted patterns of interest that is abnormal either in intensity or focus:
Cats are generally fascinated and often obsessed with entomology (insects), ornithology (birds), ichthyology (fishes). Sometimes obsessive interests also include string-like objects and ball shaped objects.
(b) apparently inflexible adherence to specific, non-functional routines or rituals:
Cats have little tolerance for changes in routine, including the routines of the individuals they live with. They find it distressing and will often attempt to remedy the situation with control measures (waking you up at 5a.m. on a weekend). Cats also ritually bathe.
(c) stereotyped and repetitive motor mannerisms (e.g., hand or finger flapping or twisting or complex whole-body movements): Cat's tail. 'Nuff said.
(d) persistent preoccupation with parts of objects:
Strings. Dangling parts of objects. Flying objects. Crawling objects. Single bits of kibble. Shadows. Laser pointer lights.
B. Delays or abnormal functioning in at least one of the following areas, with onset prior to age 3 (cat) years: (1) social interaction, (2) language as used in social communication, or (3) symbolic or imaginative play.
Not enough study done in relation to normal society.
C. The disturbance is not better accounted for by Rhett's disorder or childhood disintegrative disorder.
Other Symptoms Common to Autism
Sensory Issues:
Sounds
Cats are easily distracted and disturbed by a wide variety of noises. Sudden noises are particularly distressful, although very quiet noises are distracting also.
On the other hand, cats are prone not to hear or understand specific words, such as their name or "come", causing them to appear as though they are ignoring the speaker, particularly when hyper-focused on another subject (usually nothing).
Smell/Taste
Cats typically have hypersensitive smell and taste in comparison to humans. As a result, they tend to be extremely finicky. Few cats will eat vegetables.
Touch
Cats are often hypersensitive to touch. They may shrink away when an attempt to touch them is made. However, rubbing/scratching certain areas of their persons can be quite pleasurable to them. These places include, but are not limited to: behind the ears, cheeks, under the chin, and the shoulders.
Self-Stimulation, or Stimming
Purring is an activity cats engage in which increases their calm and receptivity. Stretching and scratching are also prevalent stimming activities. Some cats have been known to make kneading motions on soft blankets and people.
By Alice Loftin
Source: www.spacehost.us/~aliki/autism/autiecats.html
WOW, THIS IS AWESOME THANKS!! !!

She walked in (straight past me apparently).
And where is she and her family nowadays?
An animal welfare organisation provided a cage and we caught the mother and handed her on to them with all but 2 of her kittens (we could only find a home for one and could not responsibly take more than one into our home). I hope the animal welfare org found homes for the kittens; it would be unrealistic to assume the mother could be placed, but she wont be cold, desperately hungry, infested with parasites, and constantly fearful anymore.

No, just a regular ranch slider door that was open at the time.
We do not have coyotes (or indeed many large or predatory mammals) where I live. Cats can freely wander the neighbourhood and are unlikely to run into much trouble (more likely to cause it....).
Yes, I'm inclined to agree.
I opt for snakes, birds and arthropods. Cats end up p*ssing (usually literally) me off.
I keep hearing cats have Asperger's. Well, quite a few bird species are ADHD autistics. I think I fit in with that better than Aspeger's, and I find myself relating a lot more to, say, an African grey, than I do most mammal species. Just listening to N'kisi the African grey, he sounds a hell of a lot like an autistic child with his very stilted 'conversations' and obsessions with shapes and events.
snakes are awesome.


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Because they're fascinating and wonderful.
I have four cats: Henry, Cricket (brother and sister), and Charlie and Timmy.
Charlie and Timmy were the orphans/ferals we took in. I guess that they were abandoned by their owners.. They started hanging around my backyard [and became acquainted with Henry and Cricket who go outside sometimes].. They were skinny but very friendly and affectionate.
Charlie especially. Charlie is Mr.Personality. When they first started coming around and hanging out on the porch, he would look in the window and meow and meow pitifully until I came outside, and he'd just crawl into my lap and purr or I would pick him up and he'd be happy.
He's beautiful and majestic looking-- fluffy and brown and striped. Looks like a Norwegian forest cat, actually.
He can make the most mournful, dramatic noises... this loud "MRREEOW-oouwwrrow-MROOWwwowww" howling almost, on and on. He does this every so often, usually in the dead of night, and I come over and there he is, sitting in the bathroom on the toilet, just fine. He then says, "Mew?" This usually just means he wants to be picked up and walked around the house. He's obnoxious..
As for Timmy... he was originally named Thomas but I changed it. I don't know if he's Charlie's brother, or what. He looks older, but he has the same kind of fur [but all black] and he's smaller. Bright yellow eyes. He has a quiet raspy voice, and he's less outgoing than charlie but he's super affectionate. He sleeps most of the time, waking up only to eat and then wander around meowing for pets. He has a very dainty way of walking.
Henry and Cricket I adopted as kittens. Henry is solid grey and very pretty. And the fattest of the four, I'd say. Not fat really, just chubby. He's a bit lazy. But smart. He's figured out how to turn off my computer [while I'm on it] by laying on a certain wire [still don't know he does it].. He's very good at getting my attention.
And he's very helpful, he likes to "help" you make the bed and read and everything else. I call him Booger or booger-butt a lot.
Cricket is a calico, very petite and more aloof. She is always on alert. She bites, but not aggressively; it's just an automatic thing when you pet her, even if she is happy and everything. She isn't too affectionate, but when she is she's very demanding about it. And loud.
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:O What do you have? I'm telling you, the western hognose and multitude of sandboas (just a couple species we have) we've got are the damnedest cuddly reptiles I've ever seen. Our big gopher snake is gentle as a lamb, too.
The ones that don't like to be handled as much, well, we leave them to be. I don't keep snakes I can't handle, though.


:O What do you have? I'm telling you, the western hognose and multitude of sandboas (just a couple species we have) we've got are the damnedest cuddly reptiles I've ever seen. Our big gopher snake is gentle as a lamb, too.
The ones that don't like to be handled as much, well, we leave them to be. I don't keep snakes I can't handle, though.
i have a ball python named Monty.

he's really cuddly with me, too. in fact, right now, he's making a racket wanting me to take him out and hold him.


some day, i want to get a corn snake.. because they're super soft!! i just love the way they feel.

but, i wouldn't trade my Monty for anything. <3
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