sbcmetroguy wrote:
I've always been a musical person and I notice the music before the lyrics. My wife has always tuned into lyrics while I am the opposite. For the longest time she'd sing certain songs and I would say, "what song is that?" Then she'd tell me and I'd think, "no it's not" ... but she was always right. It took me most of my life to realize that in just about every song I've ever heard, I've always missed the lyrics. Except for a short while as a teenager when a friend and I thought we could sing and did it all the time. But still, he had to teach me most of the lyrics we would sing.
Today, some songs grab my attention to where I will notice the lyrics, but I still miss them in most songs. In general, music takes me away to a land where there are no lyrics!
My husband is like this. I will be singing a well-known song and he acts like he's never heard it and I'm like "What?? Yes you have! Everyone knows that song!" and then we will hear it on a commercial or the radio and I'm like "See this is the song" and he always says "Yes, I do know that song, you sang the tune incorrectly!"
Some examples are Pour Some Sugar on Me - Def Leppard and Never There - Cake. So I'm not a very great singer... but do I really mangle the tunes that badly?? I think he doesn't pay much attention to lyrics so can't recognize the song without the music.
I do pretty well when watching the game show Don't Forget the Lyrics
and I sing along to everything in stores or restaurants (quietly of course) and my husband commonly tells me that I know every song