Abstract_Logic wrote:
When I first proposed that I have Asperger's, my psychiatrist told me that Autistics don't crave friendship, whereas I do. Autistic individuals may usually not care for friendship, but Aspies generally want close companionship, we just have a hard time getting it. I didn't get into a debate with him, but he respected my decision and set me up with an appointment to see an AS specialist who can give me a diagnosis.
Your desire is to have friends, your action is you try to talk to people but you might not which is the result of nervousness. The appearance of not wanting friends.
Don't is an action or a lack there of, and actions have an appearance to one person, but the appearance is not the same as the original desire.
I hate the kind of psychiatrist or person in general that look only at the appearance of something, but not why or the spark of it.
I also don't like the kind of psychiatrist or psychologist that only absorbs what you say writes it down and then compares what you say to a checklist, but they don't actually try to understand what you say.