Why Do I Make Rhythms All The Time???

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11 Jan 2009, 8:45 am

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I "do rhythms"- almost constantly! How common is this? And does anyone know WHY?


You spoke many of the exact words that I would have used in addressing this topic. I also "do rhythms" all the time... tapping drumming walking etc etc etc, nearly everything I do is paced to never-ending internal patterns of rhythm. I view it as a talent. Inspirational. Whenever I can, I love to channel this unstoppable stream into creating a piece of music.

I believe this is fairly common in people on the spectrum. Just one of the many physical manifestations.

I know why I do it. At least, I think I do. I imagine it can be different for other people, but...
I seem to drum out rhythms like this because it focuses my mind away from distracting thoughts, gives me a way of physically expressing feelings that I may not be able to communicate verbally. It seems to help me deal with anxiety. It is calming, freeing, and often draws my mind into a light peaceful trance, where everything makes sense... guided by the crystalline math of musical patterns.


Thank you for giving me this explanation! It makes sense, I also had the feeling it helped to focus me in some way. I find it very interesting, though. I haven´t really read anything about it in any AS literature. I thought it might be an interesting thing for someone to study. I have been doing these rhythms for so long, and it is so ingrained in me that I do it rather subconsciously; but now that I´m reading about AS, I´m becoming more aware of everything I do, as well as how often I do it. When it happens, I think "there I go again!"

Does anyone know if NTs do this sort of thing too? I´m not talking about following rhythms in music now, I mean doing a stim-like rhythm of one´s own, while talking, listening or going about one´s daily business.


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11 Jan 2009, 9:12 am

I do that, too, it's cool but I wish I could do numbers all the time instead, it would be much cooler and a lot more useful, too.



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11 Jan 2009, 9:20 am

I make rhythms so often, unfortunatly for me, it is most commonly one I made up that I am not really fond of that much, and unless I have a song in my head, it is always that generic rythm. I live my life to a beat, but wish it was the othr way around, and a beat lived to myself.



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11 Jan 2009, 1:53 pm

Rhythms and Rhymes, Tapping and Chimes topic

Proudly doing this consciously for 46+ years! :D


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11 Jan 2009, 3:30 pm

I do it all the time, and I have been for the whole of my life.



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11 Jan 2009, 3:46 pm

I do it when I'm bored; but I got around it by buying a real drum set and learning to play...;)



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30 Aug 2015, 7:20 pm

I do the same and didnt know it was another autistic trait before now



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30 Aug 2015, 9:24 pm

I always have rhythms in my head, 24/7. The songs I've heard before get really annoying inside my head. Sometimes I have to make up my own music to get their songs out of my head. I do drumming with hands and fingers against various objects, clicking of teeth, beat boxing, and singing in gibberish. I'm afraid to do it in front of people, but some people have said that I have great rhythm and talent. I'm still too embarrassed to do it in front of people.

Other than that, I use my legs to stim in rhythm, right leg bouncing, and swaying both legs inward and outward, and pacing back and forth in exactly the same way repetitively, or in circles around an obstacle such as a table.



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30 Aug 2015, 9:40 pm

I always have music in my head, too. I have a habit (not sure if it's a stim) of biting / grinding my teeth to music and making beats in my mouth that are inaudible to other people. It's hard to explain... But the teeth grinding gives me a headache and is probably why they are sensitive.

I tap my fingers and bounce my legs frequently, too.


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30 Aug 2015, 10:53 pm

Me too. I quietly do that tooth-tapping thing etc. I don't make rhythms too noticeably because I don't like it when other people do it, so I reckon people wouldn't like me doing it either.

I wouldn't want to medicalise it though, as I see it as essentially a good thing, very cathartic. To me it's not a sign of ADHD or any other medical problem, it's just a thing that comes from the fact that the human race likes making rhythms, it's a very primitive urge. If you do it more than most, maybe you've just got the beginnings of musical talent. If you do it less than most, maybe you're just not very into rhythm.

I'd recommend anybody who has this trait to try out a few musical instruments and see if you enjoy it. I became quite good at tapping out rhythms on my desk at school (there was often little else to do that worked), and I still enjoy doing much the same thing when I'm listening to music. And the acquired skill comes in handy when I'm jamming with friends and don't happen to know the chords - I tap the rhythm on the woodwork of the guitar and in that way I help to enhance the music.



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31 Aug 2015, 3:16 am

I've got constant rhythms too. I feel like I can't think and my breathing is consciously controlled if I stop.
Rhythms have been with us since before we were born. Our heart beat, breathing, pulse.
Maybe we are more tuned into our inner rhythms than to the outer world.



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31 Aug 2015, 8:54 pm

I'm always counting. I count the words in a sentence or the letters in a word. I try to see if the numbers can be divisible by 2 or 3. I do this over and over again with the same things. I see and make patterns everywhere. I always tap my teeth too.

Sometimes I can't sit still and I have to move, I run around and room to try to relieve stress or just feel better.