marshall wrote:
it's just that in a noisy place the background noise draws my attention just as much as the people speaking. It interrupts the process of interpretation. I can't force my brain to ignore the background like an NT.
My father is like that. He drives me bonkers. I'll be telling him something crucial and he'll be hearing both what I'm saying and what a kid is screaming in the street without any discernment for relevance and importance. He's autistic, but with very different autistic traits from mine.
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