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text, in person or phone? Which is easiest, hardest?
text/email easiest, in person/phone both hard 80%  80%  [ 28 ]
in person easiest, or as easy as text; phone harder 11%  11%  [ 4 ]
phone easiest, or as easy as the others 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
other 6%  6%  [ 2 ]
Total votes : 35

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18 Mar 2009, 9:56 am

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But never fear! There is the alternative method (this works...): Write you note. Tie it to a heavy brick and throw it hard at the person who's supposed to be listening to you. Lab Pet can be crafty....heh heh.


:lol: I don't think that would go over too well in a legal hearing, though.

I'm glad most people say text is easiest, at least for complex communication. I didn't think it was just me. (Although given that this is the internet, there may be a response bias. But still.) I guess my next task is to figure out who in Vancouver I can turn to for advice on getting things changed. Technically, we have the right to communication in a form that doesn't silence us, but convincing people of that may be hard. Hmmm.

I personally don't have anyone to make phone calls for me. My family never would have done anything like that even if they were supportive, so I've learned to tough out the essential calls, like making appointments (a fairly technical endeavour). But in terms of human rights, we're supposed to be able to communicate independently, for times when there is no one to help, and so we don't have to wait for other people to help all the time.



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18 Mar 2009, 10:26 am

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i mostly prefer to communicate in a textual way. but there are times when i have a real life discussion, that i know i could never have said as much by typing my ideas.

i have a friend (he visits me about once every 3 weeks) who listens to me carefully and never interrupts me. he seems enthralled at my conceptual appreciation of topics he brings up.
i go into a completely detailed breakdown of every facet of my concept about his chosen topic. the amount of words i say is not restricted by my tiring fingers, and it is not restricted by not knowing if anyone is really interested (like a faceless audience i talk to here).

i say in 20 minutes what would be the equivalent of 30 pages of posts, and i could never type even 1 whole page of posts before i got tired of what i was thinking.
typing is slow (relative to idea speed) and i can type what i have thought for the last 3 minutes, but if i wish to keep up with my speed of thought, then i have to talk.

whatever. i just thought i would say my idea.


Yeah, this is kind of how I feel. For social purposes I'd much rather the phone, than text. I can't get all of what I want out in a timely manner when I type. However, for everything else... I loathe the phone. I hate calling places of businesses. I try to write out what I want to say before calling. It doesn't always work as I had scripted it out to, but it usually works better than me just trying to wing it. I hate it so much that I tend to procrastinate to the point that things don't ever get done, because I couldn't get myself to make a few simple phone calls. I have to feel in the right kind of mood, and the stars, and moon have to aligned perfectly before I can feel comfortable calling a place of business to ask/answer a few simple questions.



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18 Mar 2009, 10:31 am

I voted "other," because, for me, in order of difficulty (easiest to hardest), it goes: e-mail, in person, phone. E-mail (I rarely text message) is easiest for me, but I'd rather go talk to a person (if I know them well) about something important, so I can hear the tone of their voice and really know what their reaction is. I rely on tone of voice for understanding social cues. If it's somebody I don't know, I don't do well meeting them, usually. However, talking on the phone has always been incredibly hard for me. I hate it. I'm terrible at knowing when it's my turn to speak, so I always accidentally interrupt the other person, and I always get my thoughts jumbled and don't know what to say. :roll:
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