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Strapples
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08 Dec 2007, 9:04 am

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I have some new questions for everyone to answer!

Do you like hugs?

Do you like them extremely tight?

Do you like heavy hugs with the other person on top of you? (not sexual)

Do you like warm sweaty sticky hugs?

I absolutely love hugs, probably one of my favorite things about other humans and THE only thing i love about most "normal" people.

For me i dont really enjoy it unless it is extremely tight. so yes i LOVE them extremely tight, however if your bony and skinny please dont hug me!

Heavy hugs are something i miss about my girlfriend. we used to wind up in extremely tight hugs that would last for hours. she only weighed 120 pounds but she was a very warm girl and i loved her warm weight on top of me.

Yes, my girlfriend used to come home after physical therapy on saturdays and those were my favorite times to go since her hugs would be nice warm and sticky. for me the sticky warmth i find very very calming.


yes i like hugs, i dont mind them tight, never had a hug laying down, not too much into hot sticky hugs, i perfer warm dry ones though


you have never had one of those hugs where your friend lays on top of you hugging you? thats was one of the most common hugs with my old girlfriend aside from the kind where me and her are sitting on the floor. (we are both disabled. her parents cut me off because they didnt like how touchy feely huggy physically close the relationship was) mind explaining WHY you dont like hot sticky ones? i love both hot sticky ones and warm dry ones. but my favorite is hot and sticky.



because it just feels a bit dirty and smelly from the other's sweat, and with that their smell if it dont smell good, plus it could just be a bit sufficating with sweaty stickyness

about her parents, it seems they just dont understand how with people with aspergers and other sensory disorders that they show effection alittle differantly and some may have personal space problems (like invading other's space without knowing it) i really thing parents should understand alittle better and not think that touchy feely and alwasys hugging for hours on end means it will soon lead to sex, many with aspergers are asexual too maybe her parents are NT and just think that with 2 disabled people hugging for hours that it might lead to more trouble then what was planned.


some people do find it to be a "suffocating" feeling due to the tightness, stickyness, and warmth... for me i dont find it suffocating at all

the thing with her parents is they are both NT and they are also orthodox fundamentalist. i dont think orthodox fundamentalism is a bad thing, but shutting off love for your NT beliefs and fundamentalist views when your daughter is 18 going on 19 is completely uncalled for! and also with my medical condition "sex" is not a good idea. so i dont get what her parents problem is but its over now :( why oh why must the best girlfriends always have the worst parents...


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08 Dec 2007, 1:28 pm

my favourite sensation is passionate kissing, and i hate having a blocked nose



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08 Dec 2007, 1:31 pm

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my favourite sensation is passionate kissing, and i hate having a blocked nose

passionate kisses are one of the many things i miss about my girlfriend... she used to ALWAYS give me these HEAVY warm wet ones, and by the time one of our visits was over my entire head would be warm and wet he he :D


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08 Dec 2007, 1:37 pm

have you tried kissing someone upside down, makes it feel really different



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08 Dec 2007, 1:38 pm

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have you tried kissing someone upside down, makes it feel really different

oooh... i wish my girlfriend were still with me... then i could try that out he he... sounds like it would feel awful good? have you ever tried kissing that way, and if yes please describe the feeling you get from it!


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08 Dec 2007, 1:41 pm

pretty much the same, but with more sensation, I'm single too, sorta looking, don't want just anyone though, i also like the sensation of hopping back in to a warm spa after being out of it for 2 minutes



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08 Dec 2007, 1:54 pm

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pretty much the same, but with more sensation, I'm single too, sorta looking, don't want just anyone though, i also like the sensation of hopping back in to a warm spa after being out of it for 2 minutes

oooh... i wish i could try the upside down kissing thing right now he he... i am quite the needy type when it comes to girls, i am a very touchy feely huggy physical closeness lover and i am EXTREMELY clingy when it comes to hugs which a lot of people dont like clingy people. i dont like the sensation of getting out of the warm spa ha ha ha!


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08 Dec 2007, 1:58 pm

i dont like getting out of a spa either lol just hopping in one after hopping out, im drinking vodka at the moment with a twist of lemon, tastes interesting, dont drink vodka often



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08 Dec 2007, 2:02 pm

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i dont like getting out of a spa either lol just hopping in one after hopping out, im drinking vodka at the moment with a twist of lemon, tastes interesting, dont drink vodka often

im only 16 as described in my website http://www.alinssite.info and i cant drink alcohol or coffee since both cause seizures!


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08 Dec 2007, 2:11 pm

Heat! Warm blankets, sitting in front of the fireplace or a space heater, microwavable heating packs, hot showers. I love putting my hands in very hot water. Hot tubs are like heaven for me.



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08 Dec 2007, 2:15 pm

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Heat! Warm blankets, sitting in front of the fireplace or a space heater, microwavable heating packs, hot showers. I love putting my hands in very hot water. Hot tubs are like heaven for me.


my favorite thing to do is take extremely long hot showers... my parents dont mind because i take my shower at least an hour before everyone else to allow the water heater to refill and heat up again... i wish we had a fireplace :( do you love that feeling of clothes right out of the dryer? thats a really good feeling! i like just about anything warm/hot. do you like things that hold heat, i.e lead apron heavy winter coat?


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08 Dec 2007, 3:34 pm

strapples,
here is a website where you can get that 20 lb blanket. Hope this is helpful! Enjoy!
http://www.adaptivechild.com/index.asp? ... rodID=1082



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08 Dec 2007, 3:36 pm

I love it when I lose the feeling in my fingers during the winter.
It feels so good!


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08 Dec 2007, 3:36 pm

ASDspedteacher wrote:
strapples,
here is a website where you can get that 20 lb blanket. Hope this is helpful! Enjoy!
http://www.adaptivechild.com/index.asp? ... rodID=1082

now all i need to do is get the parents to make the investment... thats the hard part ;)


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08 Dec 2007, 3:37 pm

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I love it when I lose the feeling in my fingers during the winter.
It feels so good!

ohh yes... i do enjoy that feeling too... though its not good for you that much lol...


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08 Dec 2007, 3:42 pm

I really like tight hugs. Sometimes I can be to clingy by giving people to many tight hugs. Dawn