doordoctor wrote:
Strapples wrote:
doordoctor wrote:
Strapples wrote:
I have some new questions for everyone to answer!
Do you like hugs?
Do you like them extremely tight?
Do you like heavy hugs with the other person on top of you? (not sexual)
Do you like warm sweaty sticky hugs?
I absolutely love hugs, probably one of my favorite things about other humans and THE only thing i love about most "normal" people.
For me i dont really enjoy it unless it is extremely tight. so yes i LOVE them extremely tight, however if your bony and skinny please dont hug me!
Heavy hugs are something i miss about my girlfriend. we used to wind up in extremely tight hugs that would last for hours. she only weighed 120 pounds but she was a very warm girl and i loved her warm weight on top of me.
Yes, my girlfriend used to come home after physical therapy on saturdays and those were my favorite times to go since her hugs would be nice warm and sticky. for me the sticky warmth i find very very calming.
yes i like hugs, i dont mind them tight, never had a hug laying down, not too much into hot sticky hugs, i perfer warm dry ones though
you have never had one of those hugs where your friend lays on top of you hugging you? thats was one of the most common hugs with my old girlfriend aside from the kind where me and her are sitting on the floor. (we are both disabled. her parents cut me off because they didnt like how touchy feely huggy physically close the relationship was) mind explaining WHY you dont like hot sticky ones? i love both hot sticky ones and warm dry ones. but my favorite is hot and sticky.
because it just feels a bit dirty and smelly from the other's sweat, and with that their smell if it dont smell good, plus it could just be a bit sufficating with sweaty stickyness
about her parents, it seems they just dont understand how with people with aspergers and other sensory disorders that they show effection alittle differantly and some may have personal space problems (like invading other's space without knowing it) i really thing parents should understand alittle better and not think that touchy feely and alwasys hugging for hours on end means it will soon lead to sex, many with aspergers are asexual too maybe her parents are NT and just think that with 2 disabled people hugging for hours that it might lead to more trouble then what was planned.
some people do find it to be a "suffocating" feeling due to the tightness, stickyness, and warmth... for me i dont find it suffocating at all
the thing with her parents is they are both NT and they are also orthodox fundamentalist. i dont think orthodox fundamentalism is a bad thing, but shutting off love for your NT beliefs and fundamentalist views when your daughter is 18 going on 19 is completely uncalled for! and also with my medical condition "sex" is not a good idea. so i dont get what her parents problem is but its over now

why oh why must the best girlfriends always have the worst parents...
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