Asperger's Syndrome - No Sense of Humor

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30 Jan 2012, 4:32 pm

I'd like to think I have a great sense of humour. I'm always having a laugh. It helps me get through hard times. I can find the same things funny as an NT would. As for people's misfortune... I wouldn't say I'd deliberately find it funny. I have compassion to some extent. I do, however, like to tease. I don't mean to offend anyone, but I do like to jokingly and light-heartedly tease. It's a good thing normally because it's my way of saying I like someone. That I feel comfortable with them. Some people are just like that.



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30 Jan 2012, 4:53 pm

I've only just remembered...when I was little, I was with a so-called professional with my mum, and they were talking and made a joke and laughed. I understood the joke and laughed too, then he just went to me, "Ehh, you don't understand it because of your Aspergers". The same guy said I didn't have AS cos I had good eye contact.

...And they say people with AS are too rigid in their thinking!



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30 Jan 2012, 4:57 pm

False.....well that was easy.


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30 Jan 2012, 6:33 pm

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Dry, stone, cold and zero humor unless it's at the expense of someone else's misfortune. True or false? And no fibbing either.

As I said on another thread, I think it's the opposite. We do have a sense of humour, but not at someone else's expense. We don't see it as humorous, because a lot of us got laughed at at some point, maybe even by those who were close to us.

That being said, I said on league girl's thread that I laugh at people with mental problems. It hasn't happened IRL lately at all, but I read a specific retelling of events that happened to one of my idols in a book and laughed at his misfortune... even though he's dead now. I can't really justify to myself why, but maybe I let myself do it because people only get offended if you mock them to their face, and if you read about someone you never knew and laugh, and don't mean to shame that person's memory, that's fine.


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30 Jan 2012, 8:30 pm

Nobody around here makes me laugh what does that tell you ?


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30 Jan 2012, 8:31 pm

That we're not funny.


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30 Jan 2012, 8:34 pm

Bun wrote:
That we're not funny.


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30 Jan 2012, 8:36 pm

That being said, people can enjoy other people's humour without being funny themselves.


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30 Jan 2012, 8:53 pm

Autistics with friends.


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30 Jan 2012, 8:55 pm

Yes!


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30 Jan 2012, 9:02 pm

Bun wrote:
Yes!


One autisitic young lass claims here she had "lots of friends" never did I laugh so much , poor girl is she delusional?


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30 Jan 2012, 9:06 pm

Are you talking to me? Would I need to clarify what I said - because I never said I had lots of friends? For that matter, I don't have the knowledge to declare I'm autistic. My profile says 'I don't know. But I got the joke, if you needed to know that.


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30 Jan 2012, 9:06 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:
Mademoiselle_Cafeine wrote:
jjstar wrote:
Dry, stone, cold and zero humor unless it's at the expense of someone else's misfortune. True or false? And no fibbing either.


I'm not sure what to answer, but I'd say false. I think I've got a very dry and ironic sense of humor. I don't tell jokes, but I make fun of everyone using sarcasm and irony. Most of my friends don't know when I'm making fun or when I'm criticizing someone/something, 'cause even though my facial expressions are several, I don't usually make distinction between the two situations. But, having a different kind of humor and having no sense of humor aren't the same, believe me. That's a trace of someone's personality and not an Asperger's symptom.


I agree in that I don't see any correlation between AS and humor.

Tim


Well on a "Meet up thread" the member said apparently one of the "comedians" at the comedy club was autistic and he says the scene is full of them, since autistics are more likely to be manic depressives I guess it's quite possible ( I don't buy Dr Tony Atwood's claims that mental illness are only slightly higher in the autistic population . )


Not saying all comedians are depressive though their sure are a lot of comedians who are.


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30 Jan 2012, 9:06 pm

Bun wrote:
Are you talking to me? Would I need to clarify what I said because I never said I had lots of friends? For that matter, I don't have the knowledge to declare I'm autistic. My profile says 'I don't know. But I got the joke, if you needed to know that.


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30 Jan 2012, 9:07 pm

Yes, allot of posters here don't get my humor, that has actually caused me to post less than I might want to.



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30 Jan 2012, 9:12 pm

^^^

Perhaps your not funny did that occur to you?



Humour best left to the professionals and even than.......



Seriously tough gig.


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