Obsessed with someone on WP

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*hugs ahayes*

you hurt ahayes

*hugs*

over six pages since i went to dinner....

Sopho, even if your object of obsession isnt into you, you seem to be one of the most popular people on here

catching up....

i'm not fishing for compliments, i actually believe this, and if these are the most fulfilling years of my life, then i will have to really stretch my imagination because i already feel like im at rock bottom and if its downhill from here then it sounds real depressing.

sorry if im sounding off putting, but i just cant move in optimistic hope anymore, i have to accept what my life has been like, and will likely continue to be like - my life IS crap, has ALWAYS been crap, and will more then likely CONTINUE to be crap.

keeping a happy face, moving it confidence, and being nice to other people even when i feel down just hasnt worked, nothing i seem to do has ANY effect on improving my life, only improving others... dont worry i have accepted that it is my lot in life to help others, but i have ALSO accepted that my life is crap.

sorry, but this is how it is... if this message has annoyed or upset anyone here im sorry, but this is how i feel.



you seeing the Spaghetti monster, its onlt a metter of time before someone invents 'PDA' and creates Pasta based monsters from it.



it IS a good plan, my loss should be another persons gain... and my empirical research is known to be statistically high in accuracy...



In conclusion, you are NOT boring, or any of those other negative things you say about yourself Sopho... and if you liked guys, and you liked me, id ask you out like a shot.... and you know this cause i asked you out once already

I'm late on this, but my advice is: get off your a#% and go for it. All she can say is no, and that's just part of life. But you'll get nothing out of life if you don't learn how to not give too much of a s#&@. I always let guys know how I felt about them, and yeah I looked crazy-stupid sometimes, but at least I got it out there!! It never sat in there tormenting me! I threw a handful of ice at a hot guy on the beach, and tomorrow we'll have been married 22 years. So get moving.

Hey. I have to say I'm sort of similar to you situation with regards to g/f. Except before I didn't have friends and I knew I wanted them around 20. It took me 4 years. But I figured it out in the end. What you have to realise is part of it is you. You have to figure it out. Like eclair said your good looking. I think you may have some body dimorphic disorder. I haven't really pushed myself really hard in the g/f front, but I know it is something I have to figure out and have taken past experience on board. I think you’re depressed and that isn't helping. I chose not to walk before I can run that's why I focused on friends first. Now I’ve just got to build up enough motivation and courage.

But yeh I think if I'm honest this posting about how terrible this situation is, isn't getting wining you any friends. You’re not the only one in this situation.

At the very least two things are obvious:

1. There is a lot of empathy and love between aspis. . .yeahhh, WP and all the Wrong Planeteers!

2. Sopho Soph is well loved and respected: Yeahhhhh Sopho Soph!

whats that?



your probably right, its just i needed a place to vent... ive got nowhere else to spill out my pain where other people are going to care...

i will try not to let it happen again..

Last edited by Aspie_for_the_Lord on 03 May 2007, 5:22 pm, edited 1 time in total.

Yay, thanks.
I feel a lot better now.

Aspie For The Lord

If you would like to come over and meetup for a chat sometime let me know , you sound as though you could use a freind , as could most of us I expect . I'm always here on account of being agrophobic so give us a shout if you want to come over .

bb natty

Body dysmorphic disorder

I have no problem with you venting, but you sort of posting this 'pitty' stuff all over the place. Others, I do it too just no that often. I think it could be more constructive if you ask for advice. What you wrote just now is more revealing and relevant that’s stuffs ok. People might identify with being like that.

im off to bed now... night guys

sleep well

Has anyone guessed who it is that I like?
If anyone has then just say yes or no, don't say who you think it is.

is it me

wait I'm a guy


damn