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Autistic Men are More Misogynistic than Average?
I'm a male and I agree. 18%  18%  [ 28 ]
I'm a male and I disagree. 55%  55%  [ 86 ]
I'm a female and I agree. 12%  12%  [ 19 ]
I'm a female and I disagree. 15%  15%  [ 23 ]
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30 Mar 2015, 11:43 pm

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I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.
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31 Mar 2015, 12:20 am

SIDWULF wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.



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It's often because they don't get along well with girls.........Which partly explains why they can't get girls but it's not the whole story. Most women find social ineptitude to be not only sexually unattractive, but they feel threatened by the presence of such men and so they tend to treat autistic men unfairly even when said men show no interest in these women nor are doing anything.

This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.

In case you haven't noticed, there's also a fair amount of mysandry on the part of women here on WP. And it often has little to do with their relationship problems with men and more to do with feeling threatened by men because they don't understand our sex compounded with the fact that men are potentially dangerous to them.



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31 Mar 2015, 12:45 am

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This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.

Meh. That's right: I said "meh" and not "no way!".

Even I can admit this argument is not completely without merit. Back when I was a virgin, until I lost it at age 22, I harbored some resentment toward women, which also included the fact that they French kissed and fondled each other in nightclubs to mock beta males. The resentment could be described as hate by some feminists, as well as the more neutral-minded women. Of course, I now understand that intense visceral revulsion toward beta males like me, is naturally ingrained in women, and is not something they can control. It's meant to keep bad genes from propagating. I don't begrudge nature for implementing that safety mechanism.

All that continued until I manned up (pardon the pun), and hired an escort, who took my virginity. After that night, I started thinking that women are one of the most awesome creations god/nature/whatever came up with, their flaws be damned. So no, I'm not misogynistic by any stretch of imagination. But resentment can very often get mistaken for hate. That said, mocking any individual, even an ugly beta male like me, is still wrong.



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31 Mar 2015, 2:06 am

Lazar_Kaganovich wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.



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It's often because they don't get along well with girls.........Which partly explains why they can't get girls but it's not the whole story. Most women find social ineptitude to be not only sexually unattractive, but they feel threatened by the presence of such men and so they tend to treat autistic men unfairly even when said men show no interest in these women nor are doing anything.

This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.


It also happens to be supported by empirical evidence. That is, there really are men who resent women because they can't get laid. You might have heard of one who went on a shooting spree not too long ago (Elliot Rodger). Then there was the guy who failed at satire by proposing that it should be legal to rape women on private property to illustrate his desire for unfettered sexual access to women.

Like seriously, if you're going to call something out for being false, try to make sure it's actually false.

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In case you haven't noticed, there's also a fair amount of mysandry on the part of women here on WP. And it often has little to do with their relationship problems with men and more to do with feeling threatened by men because they don't understand our sex compounded with the fact that men are potentially dangerous to them.


Actually, I would argue that women are more likely to understand men than men are. Men are often too tied up in their masculinity kick to be able to be objective about how they behave or treat women.

This is as true of autistic men as it is of NT men. Many of whom outright hate women for a variety of irrational reasons that includes but is not limited to men resenting women for not having sex.

This is as compared to women who come to informed conclusions based on interactions with misogynist men. And not "feminist ad hominem."



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31 Mar 2015, 2:35 am

Lazar_Kaganovich wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.



WRONG


It's often because they don't get along well with girls.........Which partly explains why they can't get girls but it's not the whole story. Most women find social ineptitude to be not only sexually unattractive, but they feel threatened by the presence of such men and so they tend to treat autistic men unfairly even when said men show no interest in these women nor are doing anything.

This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.

In case you haven't noticed, there's also a fair amount of mysandry on the part of women here on WP. And it often has little to do with their relationship problems with men and more to do with feeling threatened by men because they don't understand our sex compounded with the fact that men are potentially dangerous to them.



They r resentful lol. Mysandry? Haha giv me a brayk there r way more misogyny asshols who shame feminism...cuz they feel thretened and not in control or think life is a patriarchal system where men are on top. I'm a guy and a feminist suporter but also a f****n alpha who doesn't put pusee on a pedestal. Treat women like they are people and let go of entitlment...or you will end up like that clules Elliot fuker.

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31 Mar 2015, 2:49 am

I'm so glad I'm asexual because of topics like this. I get to be friends with both men and women, and no one expects me to make it anything else. I don't have to hear the "alpha this beta that, women like bad boys and hate nice guys" lecture from sexually frustrated men because they know it doesn't apply to me, and I don't have to be called a creep or misogynist by women because I'm not out trying to "game" them into bed and they know it.



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31 Mar 2015, 3:15 am

SIDWULF wrote:
Lazar_Kaganovich wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.



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It's often because they don't get along well with girls.........Which partly explains why they can't get girls but it's not the whole story. Most women find social ineptitude to be not only sexually unattractive, but they feel threatened by the presence of such men and so they tend to treat autistic men unfairly even when said men show no interest in these women nor are doing anything.

This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.

In case you haven't noticed, there's also a fair amount of mysandry on the part of women here on WP. And it often has little to do with their relationship problems with men and more to do with feeling threatened by men because they don't understand our sex compounded with the fact that men are potentially dangerous to them.



They r resentful lol. Mysandry? Haha giv me a brayk there r way more misogyny asshols who shame feminism...cuz they feel thretened and not in control or think life is a patriarchal system where men are on top. I'm a guy and a feminist suporter but also a f****n alpha who doesn't put pusee on a pedestal. Treat women like they are people and let go of entitlment...or you will end up like that clules Elliot fuker.

I spel wurds as they sownd, join me in this revolution.


SIDWULF, you have been reported multiple times today, please post within forum rules, or don't post if you're having a bad day.



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31 Mar 2015, 3:57 pm

Booyakasha wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
Lazar_Kaganovich wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.



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SIDWULF, you have been reported multiple times today, please post within forum rules, or don't post if you're having a bad day.


It's often because they don't get along well with girls.........Which partly explains why they can't get girls but it's not the whole story. Most women find social ineptitude to be not only sexually unattractive, but they feel threatened by the presence of such men and so they tend to treat autistic men unfairly even when said men show no interest in these women nor are doing anything.

This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.

In case you haven't noticed, there's also a fair amount of mysandry on the part of women here on WP. And it often has little to do with their relationship problems with men and more to do with feeling threatened by men because they don't understand our sex compounded with the fact that men are potentially dangerous to them.



They r resentful lol. Mysandry? Haha giv me a brayk there r way more misogyny asshols who shame feminism...cuz they feel thretened and not in control or think life is a patriarchal system where men are on top. I'm a guy and a feminist suporter but also a f****n alpha who doesn't put pusee on a pedestal. Treat women like they are people and let go of entitlment...or you will end up like that clules Elliot fuker.

I spel wurds as they sownd, join me in this revolution.


Okay...I wil stop swearing for the famlees.



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31 Mar 2015, 4:14 pm

Verdandi wrote:
Lazar_Kaganovich wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
It because they can't get girls so they hate girls. Prity simple.



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It's often because they don't get along well with girls.........Which partly explains why they can't get girls but it's not the whole story. Most women find social ineptitude to be not only sexually unattractive, but they feel threatened by the presence of such men and so they tend to treat autistic men unfairly even when said men show no interest in these women nor are doing anything.

This stupid idea that men who dislike women are just resentful because they can't get laid needs to go by the wayside. It's just another bullsh*t feminist ad hominem.


It also happens to be supported by empirical evidence. That is, there really are men who resent women because they can't get laid. You might have heard of one who went on a shooting spree not too long ago (Elliot Rodger). Then there was the guy who failed at satire by proposing that it should be legal to rape women on private property to illustrate his desire for unfettered sexual access to women.

Like seriously, if you're going to call something out for being false, try to make sure it's actually false.

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In case you haven't noticed, there's also a fair amount of mysandry on the part of women here on WP. And it often has little to do with their relationship problems with men and more to do with feeling threatened by men because they don't understand our sex compounded with the fact that men are potentially dangerous to them.


Actually, I would argue that women are more likely to understand men than men are. Men are often too tied up in their masculinity kick to be able to be objective about how they behave or treat women.

This is as true of autistic men as it is of NT men. Many of whom outright hate women for a variety of irrational reasons that includes but is not limited to men resenting women for not having sex.

This is as compared to women who come to informed conclusions based on interactions with misogynist men. And not "feminist ad hominem."



Ahhhhhhhhhhh.....Elliott Rodger again eh? Funny how he's now the poster child for autistic/misogynist men despite being only ONE PERSON.

As for me, I am a man and most women really don't understand me very well at all despite explaining myself and how I think about a million times. People do tend to fear and distrust those that they cannot understand. And quite frankly, I really don't always have the patience for putting up with this kind of irrational behavior.


And I can easily argue that most women are too tied up with their own insecurity about themselves and their irrational fear of social disapproval(confounded with feeling vulnerable) that they cannot be objective about how they treat other people....And that includes other women. I can't begin to tell you how many times I've observed women acting weaker than they really are to evade accountability for their actions and using feminist ideology to justify being selfish towards men who actually care about them.



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31 Mar 2015, 4:36 pm

SIDWULF wrote:
Lazar_Kaganovich wrote:
SIDWULF wrote:
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I'm a guy and a feminist suporter but also a f****n alpha who doesn't put pusee on a pedestal.


a feminist supporter would NOT refer to women as "pusee(sic)"

there is a lot more to a woman than her genitals including the fact that they can spell properly



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01 Apr 2015, 9:08 pm

androbot01 wrote:
I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


I've never noticed this, but then again I have not been a member of 'WrongPlanet' for very long (only about 3 years or so).

Actually, I think autistic men would be less misogynistic, if only because those with autism or A.S. are far more likely to be logical about issues in general, and therefore more likely to see misogyny for what it is: a pathetic attempt to compensate for one's own shortcomings by denigrating a group of people that one does not belong to, and which one is therefore suspicious of.



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01 Apr 2015, 11:01 pm

Lintar wrote:
androbot01 wrote:
I notice a lot of hostility and frustration directed from autistic men towards women on this forum. I wonder if the misogyny is average when compared to norms or if autistic men are more antagonistic to women.
I'm thinking that perhaps autistic men scapegoat women as being the problem, when actually it is their own social skills or impatience that are to blame.


I've never noticed this, but then again I have not been a member of 'WrongPlanet' for very long (only about 3 years or so).

Actually, I think autistic men would be less misogynistic, if only because those with autism or A.S. are far more likely to be logical about issues in general, and therefore more likely to see misogyny for what it is: a pathetic attempt to compensate for one's own shortcomings by denigrating a group of people that one does not belong to, and which one is therefore suspicious of.



You thought wrong. Misogyny has multiple causes, including the one you described. But it can also be caused by having considerable negative experiences with women....Not just dating rejection and/or bad relationships, but being the recipient of prejudice on the part of women because ones mannerisms, behavior, and way of thinking is so different from the norm that women tend to shun and ridicule you because they fear what they don't understand due to feeling inherently vulnerable towards men in general.

What I've noticed about women is that very few of them openly say that they love men as a group. They seem to really like certain types of men whereas they strongly dislike other varieties of men. Most men profess their fondness for women as a whole except for a few bad apples they've encountered. I really don't *hate* women, but the older I get the more distrustful I am of their intentions and I often feel frustrated at the way they react to me even when I haven't actually met them nor done anything to warrant it.



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20 Apr 2015, 8:55 pm

well I feel I don't blame my disability as much as before, but the only times I sometimes feel bitter and resentful towards women is because the onus is generally placed on men to make the first move, do the approaching and asking out, overall, be the initiators.



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20 Apr 2015, 8:57 pm

How bad is it if I'm already miso at 14? :?


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20 Apr 2015, 10:19 pm

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How bad is it if I'm already miso at 14? :?


It's pretty normal. Most teenage boys are somewhat misogynistic. Not saying it's right, but it's how it is.



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20 Apr 2015, 10:31 pm

This thread sure is heated LOL

Misogynist and Misandrist are strong terms.

I have nothing against feminists, only radicals who label themselves feminists in attempt to get away with their hatred. You don't really see the same for males only because the system is largely patriarchal still (so I'm told). Personally I don't really notice any difference between the sexes in my daily life.


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