lostonearth35 wrote:
naturalplastic wrote:
IstominFan wrote:
Yes on the "inspiration porn." Those stories about that poor child who has no friends until his mother arranges a party of some sort always make me sad because, if those issues aren't addressed, the cycle will repeat itself year after year.
NEVER heard the term "inspiration porn" before.
Is THAT what it means?
Parents forcing kids to come to an unpopular kids birthday party?
Inspiration porn isn't actually literal, sexual porn, it's just a name for something that's supposed to inspire us, like a photo and description of a disabled person doing everyday stuff, and non-disabled people think disability means inability, and they say something like, "he/she is an inspiration to us all" and other sappy nonsense. Of course, I feel usually the opposite of what it's supposed to do.
I was joking. Making a riff on what the person above was saying.
I get what it friggin means. But what I don't get is why its bad. Would you rather have handicapped folks sink into despair?
Well...in a WAY I get it. Inspiring stories are like anything else in life- they can be a double edged sword.
A funny lady I worked with and I got into a really odd conversation once. We were talking about what books we read. She liked contrived fantasy novels. I said that I prefer non fiction, and was about talk about things like history and science, but she interrupted me by saying "oh I cant handle non fiction". It turned out that the type of nonfiction that she "couldn't handle" were things like "some woman who escapes from Somalia, and then does real well here...graduates top of the class in Harvard...well....good for you". The upshot was that she found stories like that...NOT inspiring...but the opposite...depressing and demoralizing (because in her mind such stories make HER look bad- apparently).