opal wrote:
I've been told I sound more English than Aus, but I tend to absorb unusual accents of the people around me quite unconciously; eg if speaking to a German I start talking in a german accent.
That rarely happens to me. The most notable exception, I suppose, is when I am speaking Afrikaans to a German. I find Afrikaans spoken with a German accent quite contagious, so if I am in the company of Namibians for a few days, I start sounding like them when I speak Afrikaans (which is my mother tongue).
When I am speaking my second or third language, I tend to acquire the mannerisms and body language of native speakers of that language. For example, when I speak Xhosa, I automatically speak very loudly without even realising it. I have found myself having conversations with people by shouting at a distance, the way Xhosa people do. (In Xhosa culture it is considered impolite to speak quitely, because you might be gossiping, which would be rude; you should be open about what you have to say, so that all can hear. So when you are on a commuter train and most people on the train are Xhosas, it is quite noisy.)
When I speak English, I sound like an Aspie. What I mean is, instead of using the kind of vocabulary that my peers would use, I use what I feel best expresses what I want to say in the manner that I like to speak. That includes both modern slang not usually used by someone of my age, as well as some archaic words which don't have suitable modern equivalents. I take this kind of liberty in English because I know far more precisely what the social conventions are, and I know how far I can push them and get away with it, whereas in German and Xhosa I play it safer in case I unwittingly make some major faux pas.
In Afrikaans I have a certain accent related to my family and region. My cousins all sound different, because they grew up in different regions and schools. Some Afrikaans people don't recognise my accent so they think I am English.
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When I must wait in a queue, I dance. Classified as an aspie with ADHD on 31 March 2009 at the age of 43.