NT socializing and romance is overrated
Asp-Z wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
NT's take those things to far, you should just be able to accept asocial people and lend them a hand if they need it, and romance is worse, what's with all this foreign talking on the street, hiw about just giving your partner a hug or take him/her for a walk?
Who needs social skills like this?
Who needs social skills like this?
I agree, and I hate it when people (read: my mum) tell me that I should act like everyone else, socialise more, etc.
I agree with you 100%. When I lived with my parents, they did the same thing to me. They'd always get on me because I didn't want to go places with my sister, saying if I didn't get out and do things, I'd end up being warped and unable to function in society. I was dragged to football games, parties, and other events with my sister until she moved out of the house and surprisingly, my parents never said anything to me about it after that.
When I got interested in ham radio and computers, I actually went to events a local ham radio and a local computer club held, where there were people interested in those things. Ironically, when I would come home, if my sister wanted to go out again, my parents would want me to go out with her. When I said I'd already been out and wanted to stay home, they say the things I did weren't really going out or socializing, even though there were people at these events and I did chat with them.
I still don't understand how going to a computer club or a ham radio event aren't really going out or socializing. It makes no sense to me but of course, NTs never make sense to us, with their dishonest, underhanded, unwritten rule, mind games.
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PrisonerSix wrote:
Asp-Z wrote:
bdhkhsfgk wrote:
NT's take those things to far, you should just be able to accept asocial people and lend them a hand if they need it, and romance is worse, what's with all this foreign talking on the street, hiw about just giving your partner a hug or take him/her for a walk?
Who needs social skills like this?
Who needs social skills like this?
I agree, and I hate it when people (read: my mum) tell me that I should act like everyone else, socialise more, etc.
I agree with you 100%. When I lived with my parents, they did the same thing to me. They'd always get on me because I didn't want to go places with my sister, saying if I didn't get out and do things, I'd end up being warped and unable to function in society. I was dragged to football games, parties, and other events with my sister until she moved out of the house and surprisingly, my parents never said anything to me about it after that.
When I got interested in ham radio and computers, I actually went to events a local ham radio and a local computer club held, where there were people interested in those things. Ironically, when I would come home, if my sister wanted to go out again, my parents would want me to go out with her. When I said I'd already been out and wanted to stay home, they say the things I did weren't really going out or socializing, even though there were people at these events and I did chat with them.
I still don't understand how going to a computer club or a ham radio event aren't really going out or socializing. It makes no sense to me but of course, NTs never make sense to us, with their dishonest, underhanded, unwritten rule, mind games.
translation: "you and your kind are freaks. Be like us, and do what we do. Be "normal"; don't be different."