Do you get annoyed when people pronounce words differently?

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01 Feb 2010, 4:53 am

Yes, I do feel annoyed when that happens.



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01 Feb 2010, 6:22 am

Yeah aminals instead of animals and pitcher instead of picture. And pinguins instead of penguins. Oh those people need to have something serious done to them.



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01 Feb 2010, 6:48 am

thewrll wrote:
Yeah aminals instead of animals and pitcher instead of picture. And pinguins instead of penguins. Oh those people need to have something serious done to them.

You don't think they have a learning disorder?
Some words are hard to to pronounce.
I find when I try to speak that I sometimes pronounce a word incorrectly, but I don't do it on purpose. It's a constant irritation. I have also spelt picture as pitcher and animals as aminals.


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01 Feb 2010, 7:18 am

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I often get annoyed by people pronouncing words differently than I do. It doesn't bother me as much if they have a noticeably different accent than me, but if they don't it is like fingernails on a chalkboard. This happens even when I know that their pronunciation is correct and mine is wrong. If I know that their pronunciation is wrong they sound stupid; if I know mine is wrong they sound pedantic and snobbish.

I know it's irrational so I never tell anyone about it. I haven't been in therapy for awhile - just couldn't make myself keep going - but if and when I do go back, I know this is something I need to work on.




No it doesn't really bother me because I was made fun of by how I talked when I was a kid. So I don't care if people have accents. But it annoys me when I have to deal with people who can't speak very good English.



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01 Feb 2010, 8:59 am

It used to make me mad when I was a kid, and I corrected people angrily. Even though sometimes it was me who was wrong, and I just had invented something I thought sounded better. :lol:



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01 Feb 2010, 9:50 am

thewrll wrote:
Yeah aminals instead of animals and pitcher instead of picture. And pinguins instead of penguins. Oh those people need to have something serious done to them.


I've met so many people who have pronounced "ask" with the s after the k, as "axe." Hate it.
And "alright" as "arright."


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01 Feb 2010, 12:05 pm

thewrll wrote:
Yeah aminals instead of animals and pitcher instead of picture. And pinguins instead of penguins. Oh those people need to have something serious done to them.


That vowel shift in the pronunciation of the word, penguins is a part of my vernacular.


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01 Feb 2010, 7:00 pm

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This is one of my pet hates. When news readers pronounce Barcelona as Barthelona or Valencia as Valenthia but they never pronounce Paris as Paree or Amsterdam as Omsterdom but pronounce Newcastle as Newcarstle and Bath as Barth. It sounds like a snobish lack of education to me. They say Valenthia to make themselves sound world wise but then say London when by their own rules they should be saying Landen. Pricks.

I've had a drink by the way so I may be wrong.


Yes, that's not what I had in mind when I made the original post but that is certainly a subcategory of this. Translating place names into the native language of their inhabitants while speaking in English is kind of stupid, especially when they only translate certain ones. Sometimes they go as far as changing the entire word as in calling Turin "Torino." Other times they don't make any changes as in the examples you pointed out or as in the case of never calling Rome "Roma." Speakers of other languages translate our place names so why shouldn't we translate theirs? I wonder how they draw the line to determine which to translate and which not to. It seems completely random to me.



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02 Feb 2010, 12:10 am

Improper pronunciation is irritating. My mother and grandmother do this. My mom says "sal-mon" instead of "sammon". In 10th grade English we had a sub teacher come in one day to continue reading The Diary of Anne Frank. She came across a sentence that mentioned Beethoven. She pronounced it "beeth oven". I waited until after the reading was over and kindly corrected her. She wrote me a detention slip.


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02 Feb 2010, 4:20 pm

Yes all the time.



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02 Feb 2010, 5:27 pm

If people pronounce things differently because of an accent or speech individuality it doesn't annoy me. I guess it's more 'bad english' that does.

Though, I also get annoyed when characters use made up languages in movies. Like sometimes in sci-fi movies when they use their native extra-terrestial language. Urgh. Unless it's acted extremely well - urgh, shiver.


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02 Feb 2010, 10:57 pm

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This is quite odd, because just before I read this post I complained to my roommate that an employee at work pronounced the word "pecan" in a way that drives me insane. She said "pee-can" whereas I've always known it as "peh-cahn."


I know this one because I pronounce it "pee-can" (I grew up in the mid-west) and someone corrected me on it so I looked it up and it can be pronounced either way.

A lot of people are really annoyed when other people mispronounce or miss use words/grammar, etc. however, it is considered EXTREMELY impolite to correct someone.

On the very first date I had with my (now husband...who has AS) he corrected my use of a word in a very literal way. I was totally annoyed. Thank god he was really cute or we probably wouldn't have made it to date two.

I have cured him of the habit now, because I will go absolutely bat s**t crazy if he corrects me!
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I can't seem to cure my 10 year old stepson (also AS) of the habit. I have had to remind him again and again that it makes people feel bad (especially adults) to be corrected by a child.

I read somewhere that people often don't like you specifically...they like the way you make them feel. If you make someone feel stupid and not good about themselves, they are not going to feel good about you, or want to be your friend.

Whether fair or not, I have found that to be very true.

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Not that much. I mainly get annoyed with my stepdad, he incorrectly pronounces words constantly, and sounds as though he's doing it on purpose as if he's trying too hard not to be a nerd or something. It pisses me off. A lot of times he'll begin to pronounce a word correctly and then halfway through he'll stop and repeat the word completely incorrectly.


Have you considered the fact that maybe you make him feel nervous and that's why he's second guessing himself?

This is what happened to me with my husband. I felt like he was always just waiting for me to mess up, it made me really nervous and so I'd over-think things and get tongue tied or mispronounce words I would normally never get wrong.



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02 Feb 2010, 11:02 pm

Kilometer.

Kilo-Meter.

Kill - O - Meter

Like Kilogram.

Good lord, for the thousandth time, it's not "Kill - Ohh - Mtr".


Umm, yes.


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03 Feb 2010, 12:30 am

A lot you guys are complaining about "mispronunciations" which are simply alternate pronunciations. There are all kind of regional variations on word pronunciation. Even something like "aks" instead of "ask" has historical roots, which have nothing to do with anyone's intelligence or lack thereof.

Most people in the U.S. would say "police" as "puh-LEES", but in some areas of the south they'd say "PO-lees". It doesn't make it wrong. It just gives you a clue as to where they grew up, that's all.

On the other hand, some words are just difficult to pronounce. Like Victoria Woods on "Dinner Ladies", saying, "Minnellium" instead of "millenium".

I've been guilty of saying nucular. It's embarrassing, because that's what George W. Bush said--but it just wants to come out of my mouth that way.

My husband is from England, and says a whole lot of words differently than I do. He parks the car in the GAIR-edge, and I park it in the geh-RAZH.
He eats to-MAH-toes and I eat to-MAY-toes. I don't give him a hard time unless he starts trying to pronounce things the American way, because the way he speaks is a connection to his home. I don't want him to lose that.



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03 Feb 2010, 3:53 am

The people who pronounced aminals and pinguins were camp counselors for a class trip I took and I dont believe they had any learning disorders.



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03 Feb 2010, 10:22 am

RhettOracle wrote:
I am a radio announcer. Words and their pronunciation are very important to me, and to the people I work with.

If I hear someone mispronounce something on the air, I will ask them later, "may I offer you a pronunciation guide?" That way, it comes across as a genuine offer of help, rather than a criticism. ...


RhettOracle, do you actually have pronunciation guides? If so, is there any way I can access one? :D

Also, to the people who are talking about "southern" accents: I've lived in Ohio my whole life and I pronounce all my words like you people say southerners do. For some reason, a lot of people online call the words I say "southern," even though everyone else I know (whom are also from Ohio) pronounces the words like me. Something to think about.