chaotik_lord wrote:
This is quite odd, because just before I read this post I complained to my roommate that an employee at work pronounced the word "pecan" in a way that drives me insane. She said "pee-can" whereas I've always known it as "peh-cahn."
I know this one because I pronounce it "pee-can" (I grew up in the mid-west) and someone corrected me on it so I looked it up and it can be pronounced either way.
A lot of people are really annoyed when other people mispronounce or miss use words/grammar, etc. however, it is considered EXTREMELY impolite to correct someone.
On the very first date I had with my (now husband...who has AS) he corrected my use of a word in a very literal way. I was totally annoyed. Thank god he was really cute or we probably wouldn't have made it to date two.
I have cured him of the habit now, because I will go absolutely bat s**t crazy if he corrects me!
I can't seem to cure my 10 year old stepson (also AS) of the habit. I have had to remind him again and again that it makes people feel bad (especially adults) to be corrected by a child.
I read somewhere that people often don't like
you specifically...they like the way you make
them feel. If you make someone feel stupid and not good about themselves, they are not going to feel good about you, or want to be your friend.
Whether fair or not, I have found that to be very true.
CowboyFromHell wrote:
Not that much. I mainly get annoyed with my stepdad, he incorrectly pronounces words constantly, and sounds as though he's doing it on purpose as if he's trying too hard not to be a nerd or something. It pisses me off. A lot of times he'll begin to pronounce a word correctly and then halfway through he'll stop and repeat the word completely incorrectly.
Have you considered the fact that maybe you make him feel nervous and that's why he's second guessing himself?
This is what happened to me with my husband. I felt like he was always just waiting for me to mess up, it made me really nervous and so I'd over-think things and get tongue tied or mispronounce words I would normally never get wrong.
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