Do you feel comfortable disclosing your Asperger's/autism?

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I don't bother sharing things with people when we have something in common, so it's very unlikely I'd openly share this with them, partly because I'm not even slightly interested in explaining to them what AS is. I also don't have an official diagnosis, so I'm not comfortable saying anything about it. If/when I do get a diagnosis, I'll definitely tell my parents, husband, and sister. They'll all be very interested and supportive. The rest of the family, like 500 people, would find out in about 2 hours. Hehe, it'd be like a brush fire.

Friends and coworkers, I'm not so sure about. I don't like many of them enough to care for them to know.

Update: I discussed this with my (very) NT wife last night, who knows my parents well. She recommends that next time we meet and spend time together (with my parents) I introduce the subject. Oh well, at least this resolves the (internal) circular debate I was having with myself ... of course, she may be wrong: perhaps they don't want to know. But she's probably in a better position to make a judgement call (on this issue) than I an - so I'll respect her opinion and see how it goes. Next update in November!

Im one of the yes people....I am relieved to know that I have Asperger's as my whole life Ive wondered why I never fit in no matter how hard I tried. I didnt embrace it all at once but now that I have found people that can explain me to me (thank the powers that be for Temple Grandin by the way)...I have accepted all of me and have a deeper understanding of why I do some of the things I do. I dont expect or want people to feel sorry for me I want them to understand.
I now have a BIG problem with the public being uneducated about Autism. Its not that I enjoy chatting with people but when the topic comes up, mainly due to my kids, I will tell them and I will explain and try to educate. I have seen a few documentaries that I thought were pretty good about Autism but most of the stuff they put in the media and on tv is bleeding heart crap. Poor kids, poor parents...bla bla! Ive written into discovery and TLC for some of the crap they have put on tv. Yeah its hard raising kids with extra issues but there are so many perks to having kids with Autism...where are the shows about that?
I have had several people say "Im sorry" when I tell them my kids have Autism and then I shock them with...."so do I". Everyone has problems, there are no perfect people in the world and the word "Autism" needs to stop sounding like the word "cancer".

Yes. I do not care if people know about it. When people asked me OL and IRL if I am autistic I have admitted it/said 'yes'. Also in related discussions on psych stuff or counseling....