buryuntime wrote:
One post says that in other cultures eye contact is frowned upon. So, is eye contact something that just comes "naturally" with being human, or is it something that is "naturally" picked up since it is expected of you in society?
No. It is naturally "unpicked-up." Eye contact is natural to humans as a form of non-verbal communication. Children will try to make eye-contact as soon as they are able to focus. However, in some cultures, most of the Far East, for example, children learn from parents and others that it is impolite, like children also learn that it is impolite to pick their noses. They are told to look down when communicatiing in a formal setting and eye-contact is reserved for after the formal barrier is broken and a friendship is etablished.
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