tophie wrote:
I often find that I can immediately like people better if their voice sounds nice to me. If they have an annoying voice, even though I know that logically it doesn't necessarily point to them being annoying personality-wise and not a good person, I will automatically wonder how someone could spend time with them without being really irritated.
Yep, I get stuck on this one too. They could be saying all kinds of nice things, for all I know - but all I can hear is the irritating noise of
that voice. I'd commented elsewhere about Steve Balmer - who is quite possibly a really nice guy - but I
cannot get past that foghorn of a voice and he just
becomes that voice: loud, aggressive and in-your-face.
Jeez, someone could say "hello" to me in an unexpected or odd tone and I'm instantly trying to work out what it might mean (the tone, I mean) so my response arrives late, mumbled and unconvincing.
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