What annoys or upsets you?

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Ignorant judgemental people. People who presume things. People who think they have all the answers. There's way too many in this world. They cause too much pain and suffering.

to whit, here are some pertinent bertrand russell quotes-

"It is a waste of energy to be angry with a man who behaves badly, just as it is to be angry with a car that won't go."
"Life is nothing but a competition to be the criminal rather than the victim. Our great democracies still tend to think that a stupid man is more likely to be honest than a clever man."
"The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, but wiser people so full of doubts."
"There is no nonsense so arrant that it cannot be made the creed of the vast majority by adequate governmental action."
"The fact that an opinion has been widely held is no evidence whatever that it is not utterly absurd; indeed in view of the silliness of the majority of mankind, a widespread belief is more likely to be foolish than sensible."
"Every man, wherever he goes, is encompassed by a cloud of comforting convictions, which move with him like flies on a summer day."
"Fear is the main source of superstition, and one of the main sources of cruelty. To conquer fear is the beginning of wisdom."
"Man is a credulous animal, and must believe something; in the absence of good grounds for belief, he will be satisfied with bad ones."

Great quotes. Thanks for sharing

i realized and/or was made to HATE this very much..

NOT KNOWING

i hate to not know. i hate when necessary information is withheld from me for my better understanding. and i hate it more especially if then my shortcoming due to my lack of understanding is held or used against me.

Capitalism
Right-wing politicians (i.e. most of them)
Pavement parkers
Other people's loud muzak
People with a higher salary than mine
Celebrities
Porn feminism
Hierarchies
Bossy bosses
Chavs
Live television, especially breakfast televison
Sport
Digby Jones
The Fairy Job Mother
Digital hardware that's less user-friendly than analogue hardware
Unclear instructions
Insensitivity and cold-heartedness
Consumerism
Unsolicited advertising
Interruptions
Tabloid newspapers
Ken Dodd
Mainstream society
Privatisation
Excessively bubbly and gushy people
Drunk people
Barbecue smoke
Bottled water
Betrayal
Crowds
The X-Factor
Soap operas
The Comics Code
Unearned authority
Religionism
Dolly birds
Grey suits
Women's magazines
Radio 1
Tony Blackburn
Sex In The City
Patriotism
PowerPoint presentations
Modern cars

And many, many more.

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I'll not go deep in this thread, since there is a lot to mention. BUT this one above alone is very fundamental, I think. This is what has ruined my first connection with a girl, this makes tense in my family, and sometimes myself do this stuff I hate. I also don't like people complaining about others this manner.

clueless people who presume that if they can do a thing easily, that everybody else should also be able to do this thing just as easily.

cheaters and liars..

I can relate to so much that has been written!

some of the many things that annoy and upset me:

intrusive noises- especially mouth noises

crowds

most people

bullies

racists, sexists, homophobes- bigots of any type

conversely, I also hate the overly PC attitude where you can't say anything

when people make fun of religion and religious people all the time

arrogant people

fake feminism like pro-porn activism and fat activism

people telling me I don't seem like I have Asperger's when they don't know anything about asperger's

having been told I'm rude, cold, and unapproachable my whole life (I am just shy and socially anxious)

multiple sources of stimulation at once

bad smells

having offensive people and bullies call me over sensitive

people who tell me "It must be nice" because I get extra money from school for my many disabilities (the money goes towards treatment)

people assuming my good grades are a result of profs feeling sorry for me

the way most NT girls freak out about everything, making friendships impossible

the way most NT boys are perverts who try to get in my pants

being lied to, and liars

being misunderstood every damn day

having to deal with incredibly offensive and stupid in-laws

people who cheat at school

when dogs keep barking

being told to lower my voice all the time. this makes me just clam up and feel ashamed

people who play music really loud and then expect to have a conversation over it

small talk

any noise when I'm trying to write, especially when people try to talk to me

when people always change the channel during commercials

the word "feminazi"- terrible things should happen to the people who use it, unless they are referring to actual female members of the Nazi party

Fox News, Tea Party, Islamophobia and anti-immigrant claptrap

and many more things...

Fox News
Conservatives
Liberals
Politics
Loud noise
Roller coasters
Water rides
The TSA
Yelling/Screaming
My friends Dad
The news
Doctors
Animal abuse
Child abuse
When the screen on the tv moves too fast
Rap music
Country music
Smelly people
Burping
Spam e-mails
Etc.

My number one annoyance is my inability to deal with some situations. Sometimes I just shut down, and its only some time later that I realize how I would liked to have responded. Annoying people and things don't bother me, its my poor reaction or (lack thereof) which causes me trouble.

unnecessary and wasted effort especially from myself..

+1

This whole act like an NT thing. It's okay when I'm at work, but I want to be the free range Aspie that I am here on WP.

people expecting the worst from you and making you feel like such a bad person when you're just about to do or intend something good or nice or helpful to them.