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Are you a happy person?
Yes, I am. It is because I am autistic. 15%  15%  [ 16 ]
Yes, I am. It is unrelated to my being autistic. 24%  24%  [ 25 ]
No, I am not. It is because I am autistic. 27%  27%  [ 29 ]
No, I am not. It is unrelated to my being autistic. 34%  34%  [ 36 ]
Total votes : 106

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25 Apr 2011, 1:53 am

anbuend wrote:
I wish I knew how to vote. I am a happy person, but it's neither because I'm autistic nor unrelated to being autistic. (As in, being autistic probably affects it, but it's not likely the cause of it.)


This.



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02 May 2011, 4:56 am

I'm not a very happy person, and the only thing in the world what is making me miserable is AS.


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02 May 2011, 11:41 am

I am such a depressed person that I spent the last 6-7 years of my life studying depression, serotonin and stress hormones in graduate school. Parts of this are related to Autism, while other parts are not.

I voted I am unhappy due to Autism because it is one of the reasons that I have only had one GF in my entire life.



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02 May 2011, 11:43 am

I'm not a happy person in general. I have my moments, though.


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02 May 2011, 1:48 pm

i've been told to try and be nicer to other people. my happiness kind of went with my childhood. and now that i'm wiser i know how the world treats us now and then. and for some or most autistics, ignorance is built on top of that, and loss of compassion... but for anyone who wants to stay on the positive side, thank God for family, or for simply... life. if this is destiny, laugh at it, and have fun as much as you can; its not evil, its being who you are.



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02 May 2011, 1:51 pm

Not sure anymore. I guess I am to some degree, at least the past month or two.


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02 May 2011, 2:51 pm

I'm not sure I know what happiness is. I may have known it once or twice but it was too fleeting to be sure.

I know other things that make me feel good, like pleasure or satisfaction, but I'm not sure they are the same thing at all.

When I was young I would often imitate or copy others, doing the things they did, as they appeared to be happy and I wanted to feel what they felt. It didn't work. When I abandoned this tactic and learned to be myself, I became less sad and stressed but still no closer to happiness.

I have not selected an option in the poll as there doesn't appear to be one for me.



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02 May 2011, 4:06 pm

I'm not a happy person, it's unrelated to my AS though. I just have really low self confidence because of my weight and other qualities that men don't like in a woman. :(



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02 May 2011, 8:22 pm

Overall I'm not very happy with my life. There are so many difficulties and I have not met my own expectations. But if you talk about nature, I am naturally an optimistic person with a sunny disposition. (see avatar) If I don't have that to counter all the unpleasant things in my life I'd be very very depressed, possibly killed myself by now. So I'm grateful to have that quality, I carry my own ray of sunshine inside to protect me from the cold world.


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02 May 2011, 8:46 pm

Sadly, the results don't surprise me.



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02 May 2011, 8:57 pm

Honestly, no not really. I hate my life, i'm frustrated, i'm poor, i'm trapped and I believe all these problems stem from my condition (whether it be ASD or something else).



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03 May 2011, 6:30 am

paladin wrote:
I voted I am unhappy due to Autism because it is one of the reasons that I have only had one GF in my entire life.


that still beats the biscuits out of having had zero GFs in one's life.



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03 May 2011, 1:06 pm

Even though I put down a response, I'm really neither happy or sad. I'm pretty much a stoic, suppressing all my emotions in order to protect myself from this harsh and disgusting world. I've tried connecting with people, only to get shot down or manipulated constantly, and at this point in my life I've nearly giving up on humanity. Lately, I've become more of a prick, telling people off and what not, and generally being mean. At this point in my life I don't care any more about people or human interaction, I just care about myself, f**k everyone else. Each year I see the governments of the world act increasingly irrational and people around me are vapid,selfish,stupid, and narcissistic. However, I don't hate people, I'm not a misanthrope, rather I find them ignoring and ignore them. Apathy is my ideal state.



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03 Aug 2013, 8:48 pm

Kimmy wrote:
*Gets in a patriotic stance*
I am happy, and its because of my autism.
*Inspiring music starts playing*
I have come far. My autism has given me much trouble, but I have overcome most of it and can function socially much better than I could several years ago. Now this may sound like I dont like my autism, but that couldnt be more false. I have good social skills, but I still have the tendencys that make me autistic.
*I stand in front of the Wrong Planet logo*
My tendencys make me a unique person.
I still spout random facts in conversation, and my Fiance says he learns something new everyday with me, and this got me on the Quiz Bowl team!
My habit of sorting random items has helped my family get more tidy, and now I work in the library.
And my unique look on life has spread to everyone around me, giveing us all something to think about.

Everyone has a purpose in this life, there is a plan for all of us, and for all of us here at Wrong Planet, that plan includes having autism. A purpose may move, so you just have to move with it. Do this, and autism will bring you happyness.
*Music and flag picture fade*
I am Kimmy, and I approve this message.

Love this. I would not relate my happiness to AS, but this is a very admirable perspective. I do hope to use my AS to inspire others.



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03 Aug 2013, 9:48 pm

this poll needed a midway point between happy and unhappy. :hmph:



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03 Aug 2013, 10:48 pm

auntblabby wrote:
this poll needed a midway point between happy and unhappy. :hmph:

I agree