Velcro Shoes

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It took me until the age of 11 to learn how to tie my shoes. Probably due to motor skills issues....I still can't ride a bike, and it took until I was 5 to learn how to do up buttons and other fiddly stuff. My school shoes are Velcro.

I don't find tying my shoes very difficult, but I must not be very good at it. My shoes must come untied ten times more than the average person.

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If you guys think tying shoelaces is hard, imagine being in Boy Scouts and learning aaaaalll those different knots.

I can only remember one specific knot.

On a related note: When we went hiking in the Philmont mountains, my dad had a bunch of velcro that he used to fix up our backpacks and other various issues. He earned himself the nickname "Velcro King" for these acts of bravery and insight to bring some velcro.

Funny thing: my Aspie daughter was not able to learn how to tie her laces 'til she was 7. I was not able to teach her. The teacher was not able to teach her. Her Aspie dad was. Dont ask me how. That's their secret.

I ordered my Velcro shoes from vans. They are pretty rad looking shoes and didn't cost too much. I really can't wear them for work but I use them for everything else.

A thought occurs to me. Why not use non-traditional sandals?

Before going to Arizona for some college, my mom and I bought some awesome sandals. I don't know what they're called - they're not flip-flops, have support all around the foot, and are in my opinion slip-on shoes with holes in them. I wear them with my socks on all the time.

Here's a quick crappy webcam picture of my sandal:


A quick google search revealed similarly structured sandals (Some with velcro straps!) named deck sandals. It could be something worth looking into.

All I know is that these sandals are awesome for me, when I can be causal in my footwear. Only thing they're not good for is the winter - just remove your socks if you wanna go out in the rain! :p

Well, there is a point. There is a far greater selection of non-velcro shoes than velcro shoes. If you only wear velcro shoes, then you are really limiting your selection. Even if the shoes you like come in a velcro version (a big "if"), you may have to buy them online rather than in the store (and thus can't check the fit until they arrive, which is much less convenient). And some types of shoes don't come with velcro versions at all, like hiking boots. And what if you need to rent footwear, like when bowling or ice skating? It is definitely a useful skill, even if you prefer velcro (I do). And that's not even mentioning all the other situations in which being able to tie a basic knot is helpful, or even essential. It's kind of like saying that learning to drive is pointless, because you have other options, such as taking the bus, or taking a cab. Yes, there are other options, but sometimes that is the most convenient option.

Now, if shoe laces were abolished and all shoes became velcro only, I would totally be in favor of that. But until that day happens, I am glad that I know how to tie my shoes.

An NT friend of mine told me she wouldn't hang out with me if I wore velcro shoes. I don't know if she was serious or not. I joke about it just to bug her now though.


I don't see why they can't make cool shoes in general for grownups, velcro or not, I know LOTS of people who would wear comic and cartoon character shoes or light up ones who are adults... NT's included! Personally, the ultimate shoe for me would be velcro spiderman or tigger shoes that also lit up.

They make bikes go slower due to more rotational mass and actually less manueverable. With training wheels, you cannot shift your weight in a turn (or on a straight for that matter), so for emergency/evasive movement, it'd be slower. The engineering technical reason, I believe, by leaning into a turn, you're giving the wheel more camber, and more contact patch with the ground, basically, it has somewhat of the effect a car suspension would have, allow the wheels to change toe/camber/caster within limits on the road, to better respond. If cars had no suspension, it'd be more like driving a shopping cart, and having training wheels on a bike is just 2 shopping cart wheels in back, yes, good for initial training, or if you're old, disabled, etc, but bad for actually being serious about cycling in any fashion at all.

But I digress.

Anyway, I didn't learn to tie shoes until I think 3rd grade. I felt like a huge idiot because of it. Now I only wear shoes with laces, and don't like velcro shoes at all. They make me feel bad, maybe because of insults I got from others about them. But also, they seem too loose, they do not have a tight responsive feel I like, and I can't adjust everything just right. On my own shoes I do different lacing patterns like straight lacing, over under, etc, depending on the feel. Shoelaces are needed, too. They're practical, they're always always more secure than velcro, which is needed on something like combat boots or something. Especially ice skates, ice skates need shoe laces, and you need to actually lace them up by pulling on each "X" of laces to tighten them, and that can almost make or break your skating, lacing alone. Besides, the shoe tying knot is a good idea to learn anyway, you can tie anything with that knot and then untie it later, nothing bad about that. I understand some things are hard, and I myself know, I was a little late riding a bike, lot late tying shoes, etc, but you must learn things to adapt and overcome, you can't shun knowledge just because it's hard.

But for the main point of this thread, no, I hate velcro, am sorta kinda OK with slip ons, but I like the security of laces and the adjustability and simplicity of them. Oh, and the sound of velcro is really annoying, not like "I'm gonna flip out annoying" but if I'm running on like 3 hours sleep or something, yeah, it could be something that could make me flip out. I don't really like it.

Velcro shoes and sandals with velcro. I am too lazy to tie up shoe laces. Being lazy is a common trait of Aspergers.

I can tie shoes without a problem but I would prefer to wear velcro and slip ons simply because they are hassle free.

I couldn't learn to tie my shoes in kindergarten and didn't start tying them until I was 14. When I was in for a 30 day evaluation they wouldn't let me have velcro. I can still only make a bow with two loops and not the other way. I'm not even sure how I ended up learning that way since my mother does it the other way.

Now for shoes I either wear a pair of slip on moccasin slippers or men's work boots which I no longer have to tie since I can slip my feet in and out of them with them tied. I wear those if it's wet or there is a lot of snow. I used to wear a pair of sandals with socks but the elastic in the back wore out so they aren't wearable any more.

I never needed shoes that lace. Any physical activity that requires tight lacing or tied shoes is likely something I can't do anyways. I have poor balance and can't do things like ride a bike or roller skate.