Are we aspies the biggest buzzkills to NTs

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I think I used to be kind of a buzz kill in the OP's sense, when I was much younger. But now, if someone finds my insistence on having certain things certain ways obnoxious, I will generally just leave, or find my way around it.

If they won't turn the music/loud thing down, I will cover my ears. If they insist on doing something stupid, I'll tell them to do whatever they want, but I'm just going to watch. If I say something dumb and the person is too normal to deal with it, I just won't talk to them again. If they seem to still want me around but insist on still doing the thing that I can't handle, I will just tell them strait up that either they have to stop doing that or I'm just going to leave.

I used to be embarrassed when I was the only kid in school with her hands on her ears and wincing in pain during a fire drill, but now I could really care less because I figure if someone is so arrogant that they will become annoyed by something so trivial, I have no reason to be around such a person to begin with.

Yes my bad vibes are so bad and powerful it even killed joy so now I find people are now saying kill Julien.

The only way I see myself as a buzzkill to NTs is when they are completely happy and satisfied with what I see to be a facade or illusion of some kind. And I can't resist pointing out the reality as I see it. I have great communication skills so usually by the time I'm done they realize it too. And seem a bit resentful that I "pulled back the curtain" of their particular fantasy.