Do older people who have aspergers stim as often?

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Do older people who have aspergers stim as much as younger people?
Poll ended at 07 Jan 2012, 2:04 am
I stim as much as young people with aspergers 59%  59%  [ 17 ]
I don't stim much but i used to. 10%  10%  [ 3 ]
I don't stim much and I never have. 28%  28%  [ 8 ]
I've learned to control my stimming so I don't do it very often. 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
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18 Apr 2014, 11:08 am

Yes, I do. It's not as noticeable as when I was younger. When I was younger I rocked allot and put my fingers in my mouth. I have always shimmed by staring at objects or people. If someone is wearing lets say a bracelet. I tend to stare at it to the point I don't know what the person has talked about. At my part-time job at Walmart when I'm not busy I stare at the natural light from the sky windows and also the other lights. I like to look at them, it helps me relax.


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18 Apr 2014, 11:32 am

GumbyLives wrote:
patiz wrote:
aspergers worsens as you get older, I probably stim more than when i was younger,


I've not found that to be the case. With new skill sets I've learned more to be myself in those ways aspergers is cool, and to relax or lessen or just manage the bad ways. So it's not had to get worse.

That being said, I stim less now because I've learned to take better care of myself, so my stress, boredom, etc is less. When I'm bored/stressed/etc tho, I stim just as much now.


Actually, I stim more than I did when I was younger. My sensory issues have also gotten somewhat more debilitating over that last 4-5 years.

I did stim as a child, but the "stereotypical" stims, eg. hand flapping, rocking, etc. emerged when I hit my yearly teens. I'm wondering if this was sort of my body's compensation for not having a meltdown because my meltdowns decreased significantly around this time too.



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18 Apr 2014, 11:54 am

Yes, I do. It's not as noticeable as when I was younger. When I was younger I rocked allot and put my fingers in my mouth. I have always shimmed by staring at objects or people. If someone is wearing lets say a bracelet. I tend to stare at it to the point I don't know what the person has talked about. At my part-time job at Walmart when I'm not busy I stare at the natural light from the sky windows and also the other lights. I like to look at them, it helps me relax.


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18 Apr 2014, 11:58 am

My stims have changed but they are still there.

I have recently taken to tossing and spinning a coin all day when I am at work.

I think that counts as stimming.


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18 Apr 2014, 5:44 pm

I stim about the same as always, but no rocking when other people are around. Once at work though, I rocked back and forth during a webex when I thought my camera was off. One of my workmates on the call asked me about it, and I lied and told him my chair broke during the call and was wobbly. I guess he bought that because it was never mentioned again.

But, yes, in general, stimming about the same as I always have.



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19 Apr 2014, 2:00 am

I used to think that I never stimmed. Then I remembered in my childhood how I would bite my arm frequently. I don't do it anymore. *shrug


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19 Apr 2014, 4:54 pm

About the same. The difference is I am not ashamed of it now.


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19 Apr 2014, 7:07 pm

From my personal experience it's worse. Keep in mind I didn't even know what stimming meant until mid last year. But yes, I tap my fingers like I'm drumming to the point where it becomes annoying for other people, but for me it's therapeutic. Last night I done something so odd, but I was told I was doing it for so long - like 2 hours non stop. I folded a note of money into an envelope shape and kept dropping 3 coins in it, then tipping the coins into my hand and putting them back. I was doing it repetitively for about 2 hours without a single break *shrugs* ¯\(°_o)/¯

I do all sorts of crazy stuff but it's defiantly gotten much worse now. Either that, or I'm just becoming more aware I am doing where before I wasn't.