Griffen wrote:
Thanks. Just curious if there was some rationale for folks to get very involved in a community until they had some kind of professional certification of their condition (or lack of). Doesn't seem like the kind of thing someone would be inclined to take lightly.
I hadn't even stumbled onto this place until after I had received the diagnosis from the Dr.
People that don't realise they have an ASD until much later in life are just so relieved that there is a reason they are that way that they begin to identify with the label. Getting a formal diagnosis is difficult to as an adult, and sometimes a child too. I knew two mothers who struggled to get their boys diagnosed.
Some don't want an official diagnosis because they don't think their symptoms are severe enough, they don't want it on their record or they can't afford it.
I read up about it before I was diagnosed but was never sure until I was diagnosed, twice. Now it just seems so obvious and knowing makes me beat myself up less when my symptoms get out of control. Same with ADHD too. When I'm really struggling I will just give in and say 'I'll deal with this later.' Usually with medication.
Since I was diagnosed I decided to make some changes and though it's hard to keep them up I have and feel better because of it. I've got the help of the medication which makes things 10 times as easier, but then it wears off.
I went from being behind my peers in general knowledge to correcting them about it. I taught myself physics, high school math and I'm writing my own book. I don't care too much about socialising too because I've been through it all and I've developed enough skills to get by, even if I can't have a normal conversation. That doesn't bother me anymore. What bothers me is that I can't write or think clearly at times, have horrible sensory issues and really love my routine and hate to break it.