Lightning88 wrote:
MTV and VH1 were constantly on our TV when I was little and music was always playing in the car so it's not like I've not been exposed to that much of it or anything.
If that's all I'd been exposed to, I probably wouldn't like music very much either. You might find a style you like somewhere. I remember one lady told me that music hadn't impinged on her at all until she heard punk rock. I hated music until the Merseybeat thing in the early 1960s.
I can't explain what the big deal is about music. I don't understand in scientific terms why people (self included) go for certain rhythmic and tonal sounds. Even when you strip out all the fakes who pretend to like the latest fashionable record just to fit in with the herd, there's still a lot of genuine interest left. One description that helped a bit was that music used to be like paintings - it represented aspects of the environment, so that just as a painting represents the sight of a mammoth, a piece of early music might have represented the sound of a mammoth. The similarity is unclear because music has become much more abstract than painting. But the theory creates more questions than it answers.