Angel_ryan wrote:
Have you ever been invited out to coffee or drinks? Only to watch the person who invited you and said they missed you to be talking to someone else the entire time your with them. I think you're missing my point entirely.
I'm not missing the point; I just do not see it as a problem. When my "date" does that to me, I excuse myself, find another table (or restaurant) and enjoy my coffee alone ("
Oh, I'm sorry ... I thought you wanted to have a private conversation ..."). They either never invite me out again, or they get the hint right away.
I like that solution very much. I tell a guy it's rude and if he doesn't put it away, I'm going to leave. If he argues, I leave and give a vague excuse. I have better things to do than wait for people.
03 Jan 2012, 3:16 pm
