Mike_Garrick wrote:
This is getting ridiculous.
Just in the last week I've seen 3 or 4 of these threads.
Basically what they're saying is "We have no clue why this is happening, but give us a lot of money so we can get payed to look into random things,"
I agree. And they're not helping! There are still a lot of people looking for that answer as to "why", and I feel that is unhealthy. Yes, people want to find a cure, or find out what causes autism so that preventative measures can be taken, but it only causes more grief for the families who haven't come to terms with the diagnosis yet.
My mom called me last night and told me that they were going to do a news segment on autism, and that I should watch. So I did. My husband (who was 37 when our son was born, I was 27) walked in just as they started talking about mutated sperm. Joy. He says, "so this is my fault". He says he knows it's not, but now I wonder.
For me, I didn't really have that grieving period upon diagnosis. I was just wondering if he'd get picked on in school. I've already dealt with kids bullying him, his own neighbors and supposed playmates, no less. I won't tolerate that at school. He goes into his second year of preschool this year. Luckily that environment is controlled. But anyways, with regards to grief: I grieve each time he wears me out, and is suspended from the ceiling and I can't reach him. Other than that, it's whatever. My kid is autistic. He's still going to take over the world. I consider his autism a boost, to be honest. Kid is wicked clever.