Tattoos: Aspies Love 'Em or Leave 'Em?

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Tattoos: love 'em, or leave 'em,?
I like tattoos but I can't handle pain. 6%  6%  [ 6 ]
The whole point of tattoos in Western society escapes me. 50%  50%  [ 50 ]
I ignore/don't notice them. 11%  11%  [ 11 ]
Tattoos are awesome and I have one or more. 33%  33%  [ 33 ]
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01 Sep 2012, 2:24 pm

I didn't vote because my choice is missing- "I hate tattoos on me, love them on other people".

I don't see why tattoos are a problem as long as they are well done. Tattoos have been around for many thousands of years, in many different cultures. I just see it as art.

I have a weird thing about marking my things. Like I will never write in a book, highlight in a text book, put stickers on my car, etc.. I wouldn't even get a temporary tattoo just because of my weird aversion to marking my things. I've always heard people who are opposed to tattoos say 'but it's permanent, you'll regret it later'. Seems weird that people worry about a permanent tattoo on a temporary body.



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01 Sep 2012, 2:25 pm

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The people describing those with tattoos as losers and such need an attitude readjustment. I'd have hoped that in a place like this full of people who are more likely to have been marginalised and looked down upon themselves that there might be a little more understanding or at least attempts at understanding. Casting aspersions on people based on something as trivial as a difference in preference is bigotry pure and simple. To those expressing that particular opinion: i am sorely disappoint.


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01 Sep 2012, 2:35 pm

Although I realize tatts are used to make nonverbal statements, they don't really have any effect on me. If anything, they are a roadblock in distinguishing natural bodily features, which I don't particularly appreciate...

And I would not get one because:
- they aren't physically necessary
- I do not like being poked with foreign objects unless medically necessary
- likelihood of health problems caused by tattooing is > 0


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01 Sep 2012, 3:00 pm

Larsen80 wrote:
XFilesGeek wrote:
I'm a female and I have several on my arms. Large ones.
Of course, it seems like it's "fashionable" to pooh-pooh tattoos these days, which suits me fine because it allows me to more easily weed-out people who are inclined to judge others based on superficial nonsense. "Reverse sheep" are every bit as annoying as "sheep."



What? Has there been a time (later than prehistoric, tribal world) when tattoos were LESS fashionable than now? When I think tattoos in the "original" sense, I think prisoners and sailors - people in confined spaces with meaningless doing and obeying on a daily basis, deprived of normal means to express themselves and act as independent human beings. It seems reasonable that tattoos and similar kinds of appearal were ways to find identity and fraternity and keep their memories.

Hell, I'm not even condemning on similar subcultures today, whether they are punkers, bikers, goths, political extremists etc. What I scoff is main street citizens of my own kind with all the priviliges and opportunities one could ever wish for, who - in a superficial act - deliberately buy into a loser culture to stand out as unique or rebelious. Some of those who then complain about resistance in finding work. A selfinflicted disability.


Sorry, buddy, but I have tattoos because I'm fascinated with body modification in general.

I've never understood the habit of inventing long, convoluted motivations for other people's actions as opposed to simply ASKING them what their reasons are. For example, your assumption that not only am I trying to be "unique" or "rebellious," but that I'm attempting to join a "loser culture."

Personally, if I like something that is "popular," I'm not going to avoid it just to prove how "non-mainstream" I am. I like what I like, and that's that. But if it makes you feel better about yourself to declare us tattooed-types as "losers," more power to you. Just one more person I can feel justified in avoiding.


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01 Sep 2012, 3:10 pm

I have two tattoos and I admit I got them when I was younger. I don't mind them though, I put them on my back on purpose. When I'm old I'm not going to be walking around in short tops anyway and I wont have to see them. Actually, I wouldn't mind getting another one or adding on to my one tattoo. I'd never get one in any other place but my back though. They also represent my thoughts and what I was like at that point in my life. They're a part of me.



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01 Sep 2012, 3:15 pm

Rascal77s wrote:
I didn't vote because my choice is missing- "I hate tattoos on me, love them on other people".

I don't see why tattoos are a problem as long as they are well done. Tattoos have been around for many thousands of years, in many different cultures. I just see it as art.

I have a weird thing about marking my things. Like I will never write in a book, highlight in a text book, put stickers on my car, etc.. I wouldn't even get a temporary tattoo just because of my weird aversion to marking my things. I've always heard people who are opposed to tattoos say 'but it's permanent, you'll regret it later'. Seems weird that people worry about a permanent tattoo on a temporary body.


Yeah, I never got that aspect of "tattoo hate."

Just about everyone is going to get "old and ugly" at some point in their lives. Live long enough and you get wrinkled and starts to sag. Youth and beauty are fleeting. Besides, tattoos are hardly "permanent" seeing as how all flesh will eventually purify and rot if cremation isn't opted for. I guess it's my Zen Buddhist leanings, but I can't get overly attached to my very temporary body in this transient world. If anything, my tattoos are a statement that I don't take life very seriously and wish others didn't either.

Most of the heavily tattooed people I've met have been pretty laid-back and non-judgmental. Wonder if there's a correlation.

Anyway, it's interesting to see just how many Aspergers/autistic folks are still nevertheless obsessed with what's "fashionable" and "looks sexy." Inherently, I just don't give a toss about social approval. Heck, I rarely notice what other people are wearing let alone whether it "looks good (and I don't have the slightest clue what "looking good" is)." And, being transgendered, I've noticed that there definitely seems to be a mechanism in the brain of some humans that gets utterly offended if you dare alter your body into a configuration that they find sexually unappealing. It's weird. :?

I guess I'm just utterly divorced from most normal human experiences. I don't experience "sexual attraction," I don't care about my position in the "social hierarchy," and I find altering the human form to be an overwhelmingly intriguing concept.

Meh.


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01 Sep 2012, 3:24 pm

I like the look of tattoos. A few tattoos on a guy can be hot, but they're not for me



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01 Sep 2012, 3:42 pm

weeOne wrote:
It makes sense to me as a rite of passage, such as in tribal fashion like the Maori, but not in general.


Tattoos are a very ancient artform, and not only in Polynesia and places like that
eg.
vikings
it is very likely that the vikings were tattooed.
at around year 1100 the arab ibn fadlan described a
meeting with some vikings. he thought them very rude, dirty
- and covered with pictures.

the celts
were a tribal people who moved across western europe in times
around 1200 and 700 B.C. they reached the british Isles around
400 B.C. and most of what has survived from their culture is in
the areas now known as ireland, wales and scotland.
celtic culture was full of body art.
permanent body painting was done with woad, which left a blue
design on the skin. spirals are very common,
citations from: http://www.designboom.com/history/tattoo_history.html


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01 Sep 2012, 4:38 pm

As a bod-mod enthusiast, I have many tattoos myself, all of which are custom drawn by myself (biomech) or are odd (nobody else likely would have them, like the Flak 88 ).



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01 Sep 2012, 7:03 pm

I like the idea of tattoos and I love seeing other people's tattoos, but I couldn't get them myself. Pain isn't an issue for me; I got my wisdom teeth removed a couple of years ago and didn't need pain medication afterwards. The issue for me is the fact that I have a tendency to change my mind a lot. I may love something one day and want nothing to do with it the next, and vice-versa. This happens even with my own special interests, as my posting history will tell you. So something as permanent as a tattoo would be very impractical for someone like me, to say the least.



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01 Sep 2012, 7:14 pm

I don't get it. Even if I found a tattoo I like, I know I'd want to change it later. And I think tattoos look terrible on old wrinkly skin which we all get eventually.


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01 Sep 2012, 10:17 pm

I have two. One on each ankle. I drew them myself and the tat guy copied them onto the flash. They are about the size of a silver dollar (the old silver dollars) and one is a medeivel woodcut sun and the other is a horned moon with three stars between the horms (impossible, I know, thats the point). I got them because I thought it would be pretty, and to me it was. Still is. They aren't noticable and even when I wear shorts and sandles and mention that I have a tat people ask me where, and I show them. Right there, where you can see it when I'm wearing shorts and sandles lol.

I really like tats on guys. One or two look good, as long as they are done well. I hate bad ink. I also hate homemade tats (no offense to anyone who has that) My husband has one. The same guy did his that did mine.


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01 Sep 2012, 10:38 pm

I don't have tattoos myself, my skin is not very good. I like those delicate Chinese tattoos though, or a small tasteful kitten on the ankle or wrist.



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01 Sep 2012, 10:43 pm

Mneh ... I'll never get one, but I've met several attractive women who thought that I was "safe enough" to show me their tattoos...

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02 Sep 2012, 2:35 am

I briefly entertained getting one to camouflage a 13.5 inch scar on my belly. But in the end, it just isn't for me.

I have seen a couple tattoos that were very striking and unique and very well colored with a very sharp edge... if they were all that way, I might like them more overall. But the majority are not attractive to me.



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02 Sep 2012, 2:42 am

I like the look of some tattoos, but I still don't like them in general. As for pain, I have a VERY low tolerance for it. I'm very sensitive to it so I know I couldn't handle the pain of a tattoo, even if I did like them enough to actually want one.


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