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DerekD_Goldfish
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19 Dec 2006, 7:55 pm

sorry it didnt go well for you
One of the main reasons I am not diagnosed is fear of such a situation
I am not good at explaining how I feel and doing this to a person I hardly know
such as a doctor wouold be difficult if not impossible.
and even if I went through all the hastle im not sure what benifit a diagnosis would be to me
if im right then I still have AS and will have to learn to cope with it myself as I am currently doing
if Im wrong then im just paranoid and wll still suffer from the same social and other probelms I have.



celtic1985
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20 Dec 2006, 9:12 am

krex wrote:
A few questions for you.......

What "testing" did she do,or did she just ask you questions based on the DX manual?How much influence did she put on your childhood,family imput,school evaluations?How confident are you in your own memory of your childhood?How many "aspies" has she met?You can see for yourself,the diversity of aspies here.....we may have common traits but how the traits are exhibited can be very individual.


No testing, and no questions from the manual. I listed all the reasons I thought I was aspie and she told me that there were other aspies at the University she had met and she was confident I wasn't like them. Then we moved on to 'depression'.

And in answer to your question, I can remember very little about my childhood.


I'm going to try one more time with the psychiatrist in February, if he just rubbishes it I'll give up.



ascan
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20 Dec 2006, 11:58 am

celtic1985 wrote:
No testing, and no questions from the manual. I listed all the reasons I thought I was aspie and she told me that there were other aspies at the University she had met and she was confident I wasn't like them...

If you think you have it, and want to know for sure, I'd forget GPs etc. and go directly to someone who specialises in ASDs. I've read countless posts on various message boards over the years by people reporting how they were fobbed off by GPs and therapists, only to finally get to see someone who knew about AS and then to get the diagnosis. Ask that JJ bloke, he's been posting about this sort of thing recently, and could probably give you current details about who to contact.

As for your doctor stating you're not "like" the others she's met, that doesn't seem a very credible thing to be saying (though I don't know the exact context, so can't be sure). I've met a number of AS people over the last few years, and know some reasonably well. They are all different, and though it's easy to put them into categories based on personality, some of those categories seem almost opposites to each other. Of course, there are common features that you'd recognise after spending some time with someone, or that a specialist could probably recognise, but I don't think it would be fair for your GP to discount the possibility you have AS on the grounds you've reported she has.

On the other hand, you may not have it, or have impairments that are below the threshold for an AS diagnosis, but in the latter case that still means you're on the spectrum, as it were, and it would still be useful to know.