How many people do you think R born NT & develop into As
In the UK most professionals no longer even recognise the term "disorder" in relation to autism we use "condition" because there are both strengths and weaknesses
That is them looking at a pile of sh*t and calling it a pile of roses. ASD is a defect and disorder. We are born damaged.
It is like saying down syndrome or blindness are only differences, not defects and disorders.
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I was not born damaged, nor was my son, nor were my students, and my daughter may have a lot of s**t to deal with because of her comorbid conditions but she is truly amazing and can think in ways nobody else I know could even dream of, she's certainly not defective but probably the single most intelligent and creative person I have ever met.
It's attitudes like yours that make life harder for everyone on the spectrum, we may have challenges to face but we also have a huge amount to offer and the world would be a much less interesting place without us. Our contributions to science and art in particular have enriched our societies for thousands of years and in the past we may well have been seen as special - unusual people may have been better appreciated within smaller less complex systems, it is probably only in our current social climate that our differences with sensory processing and communication make life so hard for people on the spectrum and so difficult for us to find a comfortable place to exist.
Don't get me wrong, I am not someone who thinks we're the next step in evolution or superior to other people, mainly because I am certain we are not new but have always been here and are simply part of the genetic diversity of the human race, and anything that makes life harder for people to survive in the world cannot be a step forward. Some people are so badly affected they are in constant pain, or confusion, or fear (my daughter has lived with pain all her life because she is on the spectrum and a couple of her comorbids are particularly nasty) and that cannot ever be a good thing.
I experience the challenges of living with being different myself and have worked with people who have far, far more to deal with - I consider myself very fortunate not to be affected so badly by my sensory differences that I can't function without significant support - but I still cannot see us as defective, only different.
It's attitudes like yours that make life harder for everyone on the spectrum, we may have challenges to face but we also have a huge amount to offer and the world would be a much less interesting place without us. Our contributions to science and art in particular have enriched our societies for thousands of years and in the past we may well have been seen as special - unusual people may have been better appreciated within smaller less complex systems, it is probably only in our current social climate that our differences with sensory processing and communication make life so hard for people on the spectrum and so difficult for us to find a comfortable place to exist.
Don't get me wrong, I am not someone who thinks we're the next step in evolution or superior to other people, mainly because I am certain we are not new but have always been here and are simply part of the genetic diversity of the human race, and anything that makes life harder for people to survive in the world cannot be a step forward. Some people are so badly affected they are in constant pain, or confusion, or fear (my daughter has lived with pain all her life because she is on the spectrum and a couple of her comorbids are particularly nasty) and that cannot ever be a good thing.
I experience the challenges of living with being different myself and have worked with people who have far, far more to deal with - I consider myself very fortunate not to be affected so badly by my sensory differences that I can't function without significant support - but I still cannot see us as defective, only different.
I guess in your mind aspies aren't born defective or damaged, but I cannot help but think we are. Perhaps it is because of my own life that I feel like this. Living with aspergers has been one of the most painful parts of my life. I will never have friends like other people. I don't think I will ever find someone to spend the rest of my life with. People are always judging me and condemning me. It hurts to know that no one outside of my family would want to be around me. My family (sibling, parents, cousins, and such) are one of the few things that bring joy to my life.
To me that sounds like the only place you have found understanding and support is with your wonderful family; I'm sorry we live in a world that excludes people like us so badly and doesn't help us learn the skills we need to live the happy and fulfilled lives we deserve. I've had my share of problems and haven't had an easy time socially but I have found friends and colleagues who understand and support me and I did find love and build a family with my partner. I can only hope that as the world becomes more aware that tolerance of our different ways of being and thinking, and support to help us feel more comfortable and more socially accepted will mean that fewer of our children will have to endure the same hardships.
Whenever I feel life is just too much and nobody cares or understands I look at my son who is now in university and supported by a fantastic team who love him to bits and remember that if he had been born 50 years ago he would have been institutionalised from a very early age - if he managed to survive at all.
If you would use the "quote" button when responding, we would know to whom you are responding. Doing so would be quite helpful to anyone else trying to read the thread.
I think that would not be Asperger's by definition, because developing it later in life contradicts the criteria if I recall correctly. So would the delays in developmental milestones (walking and talking) you mentioned, incidentally: until recently the lack of such delays distinguished Asperger's from Autism, and now they aren't mentioned in ASD criteria.
So to answer your question, none, though one might develop symptoms that resemble it.
in my case the slow developmental skills only started to occur when I was turning 12
You don't seem to know that much about the condition you claim to have.
Mmm I wonder what label would they use instead if someone had autistic traits and they met enough for the criteria but they didn't have them in their early childhood? Sometimes doctors will slap a label on someone for closest match for a diagnoses so they can get the help they need. What other labels can they slap on them that explains their problems?
Sometimes children who were abused or neglected so they develop autistic like symptoms get diagnosed with PDD-NOS.
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and had you read everything I wrote I said that I had many friends and behaved just like everyone else
as well I didn't have any slow developmental skills when I was born, practically all people born with Autism have slow development in learning how to walk and talk
I learned to walk within 11 months which is quicker than most NTs it is a mater of fact that I was born an NT so there >:)
Also nice one you didn't even answer the question
You seem to know very little about AS, people with AS develop as quick as NT for things like walking and talking. There is no slow development in walking and talking with AS, in fact that is what distinguished AS from classical autism. People who had delays are diagnosed with PDD-NOS or Classical Autism and not Aspergers.
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Hmm, that's interesting. Major brain changes can make you develop something like autism. There's an acquired form of ADHD from traumatic brain injury - so why not autism?
I've been autistic since at least 2 years old, and it's probably most of a developed in womb type of thing with me. After I developed epilepsy though my symptoms are way worse.
I think it is entirely possible to develop a disorder that mimics the symptoms of autism/AS. I think there should be an acquired type too. It's not fair to just reject these people and either call them NT or always having AS. I know what a simple brain lesion can do to you. OK, so it's not so simple. But I've got some crazy strong synaesthesia now and I'm even more hyperactive than before, yet I burn out so easily. And my sensory sensitivity, is way worse.
Where was the surgery performed, by the way? Maybe it was near those areas that affect autism the most. Frontal lobe or temporal.
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In the UK most professionals no longer even recognise the term "disorder" in relation to autism we use "condition" because there are both strengths and weaknesses
That is them looking at a pile of sh*t and calling it a pile of roses. ASD is a defect and disorder. We are born damaged.
It is like saying down syndrome or blindness are only differences, not defects and disorders.
That is a little harsh, but I do believe it is a disorder. The symptoms can be debilitating to just carry out every day tasks. There are strengths and weaknesses. The weaknesses are not just some annoyance. They are impairments. The strengths are a fine coping mechanism to have.
People with down syndrome have one over us though: they are more social. I've met high functioning people with down syndrome who have been very successful. There's also a community of proud to be blind people who don't want a cure. It's what minority groups do.
I think people use 'condition' to be PC. The term actually really annoys me because it's like it sugar coats our difficulties. Oh, we are special little angels sent from God. I'm not a child; I don't need to be told that I'm special or that my brain is just different.
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