How to I avoid smalltalk from cashiers without looking rude?

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I've never had that happen. Could it be related to using a credit card or a check? What if the person says they don't have a phone or really doesn't have a phone?

I think the chit-chat in grocery lines is a way to humanize both people.

My dad worked as a pharmacist and once commented that someone could program a vending machine to do his job. That's a pretty dehumanizing way to view a career choice.

You could see cashiers as objects you have to deal with before you can get your stuff. Or you can see them as human beings trapped behind a cash register for 8 hours to pay their bills. Human beings for who conversation may be enough of a distraction to make the shift go by a little quicker.

That may not make coming up with small talk any easier. Best bet is to "notice" how busy/not busy the store is and ask how the day has been.

Most cashiers don't speak to me, even if I smile and say ''good morning/afternoon/evening''. Not that I want everyone's attention, but the principle of the matter is still hurtful.

It could be a regional thing.... I'm East Coast USA.

I'm in NY.

I'll guess it's either from my paying cash or it's just certain stores with weird policies that I just never went to.