beneficii wrote:
Bodyles,
Ja. I think I have cross-dominance issues, too. I write and eat with my left hand, but throw a ball with my right hand and kick a ball with my right foot, while throwing a frisbee with my left hand. For some reason, I want to fire a pistol with my right hand even though my left eye is dominant. I'm all messed up. LOL.
I think I also have that same kind of death grip, though I write with my left hand. I generally hold my arm just about straight out, with the pinky-side of my hand down on the table/paper almost like a fist, with the pen/pencil coming out between my middle and ring fingers and my thumb tucked in creating an even stronger grip. I kind of drag my hand/fist across the paper as I write. I haven't been able to get used to any other way of writing. Needless to say, my handwriting isn't all that great and my wrist starts to hurt pretty soon after starting writing.
Yeah, I was always in pain after having to write significant amounts of things in a class, like an essay for a test, even though I'm actually fairly decent at academic writing.
These days I usually just type.
The only times I write anything by hand are things like filling out forms, or taking notes on a post-it for work.
Although lately I've even abandoned the post-its and simply use text files on my computer to take notes and copy important or useful things because I've been freelancing and working from home for about 7 months now.
I never use cursive anymore for anything except my signature is loosely based on what my name in cursive used to look like when I actually wrote in cursive.
Typing is just simpler, both for the writing and the reading.