Glad a few people here can agree
Yes, it is power isn't it? When you think about it. You can control the first impression - the MOST important thing in initiating contact of any kind with someone. If you immediately turn them off, then you have no chance. If you impress the living daylights out of someone, chances are they will grovel at the chance to be in your presence
Like English is one of many languages we are given as humans - as a tool to interact with the world around us - so is fashion. It's a freakin' complicated one to learn, and while some excel naturally, others struggle to learn the little details. It's also open for different methods of translation there, and interpretation. You can make it up as you go along, and chances are someone will understand.
Meh, when I was a kid I had zero style. As in, I would wear little short baggy gym shorts sort of things - yellow, I think they were - and I didn't care if the pockets were hanging out. Old t-shirts, raggy things. Jandals (flip-flops). And that was the extent of it. Hair was everywhere too...hated brushing it. No wonder I hardly made friends with the other kids in the street :/
Nowadays I've learned the hard way what a bit of fashion sense can do. I started out as the 'fat asian dork'...nowadays I'm more aware of my figure and how to flatter it. My form-fitting shirts are designed to capitalise on what I have to offer - a tiny waist and major cleaveage, lol. I'm a casual, effervescent person by nature - echoed by the sneakers (or boots, before I destroyed them in mud at the WRC), jeans and strong coloured shirts (red, purple, blue...). I also have that cheeky, flirtacious side...I love to torment the boys, letting them know what they might just be able to have - hence the low-cut jeans and exposed cleaveage. A personal style choice of mine is my flared pants - not one pair of pants I own is wider at the knee than at the ankle! In short, my clothes say who I am - not interested in the very latest trends, a rebel by nature. Casual, playful...not afraid to be feminine and sexy, but wouldn't be caught dead in a skirt or dress or PINK because the tomboyish car-gal within wouldn't tolerate it for a second Don't expect any girliness out of my femininity. LOL.
I really do need to do some wardrobe updating though >__<;
Guys, you can learn from this. Learn what an item of clothing says...find something that's comfortable, looks good on you, and says what you want it to say. The site is right...you need to remember to reflect your age and maturity through how you dress, and that you actually give a flark about how you look. It IS important, hush! These little things say so much for who you are...not caring echoes that attitude through more than just looks