ImeldaJace wrote:
littlebee wrote:
Not to take it off the funny note which does hit things on the 'spot,', but all of this stuff is interconnected with the central person who is interconnected with everything else, so to think of being autistic as the central disorder misses seeing something really very important about the world and oneself probably tends to feed into and reinforce whatever kind of disorder or disorders one really does have and may even lead to further disorder. This is not implying to not think about oneself and the problems one does have, but there are different ways to think about things, some more productive than others.
You kind of lost me here.
But what you said sounds really interesting, so would you mind explaining more?
Thanks!
Yeah, sorry...I can get kind of carried away and think people will understand. What I meant is why think of anything as the central disorder? That is disordered thinking, as how would a disordered mind even know? The
way one is thinking about things is the disorder, and/or sometimes (but not always) even
that one is thinking about this stuff. Obviously a disordered mind is not going to be able to sort it out about all these various disorders (and so-called disorders, in that some of the people here on WP are saying their disorders are not even disorders, but it is
other people who have the disorder, and probably in some cases this is even true).
For instance, re choosing a therapist who is giving all or some of this diagnostic data--some of these guys can be helpful but some are
psycho therapists. An autistic person can be very naive and gullible--at least such is admitted by many here --so how would they/we know what therapist to choose and whether they are psycho or not? This is not intended to be about therapists per se in this instance, but just a handy example.
The key point is that whatever way a person is responding in any given circumstances has many different factors playing into it, so the way he is responding is according to the way his mind is factoring data. If someone harms me or is very kind to me, I cannot really say I am not connected to them in some way. If this were so then there would be no way for me to even respond, as everything and everyone would be disembodied, so it would all make no sense. On a physical level everything is in some way interconnected. .