I don't actually have rituals. But I do kind of have some OCD things that I do and I may have OCD along with autism, unfortunately.
For instance, I'm very germaphobic. I take too many showers and wash my hands too often. And I also wash my clothes more often than they need to be. Taking lots of showers is unhealthy, but I feel the compulsive feeling that I need to shower a lot.
And I tend to use a lot of hand sanitizer. And I clean a lot of things a lot more than they're needed. Sometimes, I wish I had augmented reality classes or contact lenses that I could wear all the time, that would tell me how many germs are on something, and whether they're dangerous germs or not. I feel like it would bother me less if I knew and I knew everything was clean and safe and didn't have too much harmful bacteria on it.
But I don't like rituals really. Or I guess what I really mean is that I don't like schedules. Being responsible is a part of being an adult. But that doesn't mean that it's always fun. I find it most fun to be able to do what I feel like doing at the time, rather than having a schedule. The less schedule I have, the happier I feel. Having obligations and keeping track of time isn't fun for me. I'm sure that's how things are for most people, after all, it's a responsibility, not something people do for fun. But it does seem like some people do like schedules and responsibilities like that.
There's not much I have to do every day as long as I'm having fun. But I don't want to be doing things that aren't fun. Or doing things that make me feel uncomfortable.
Holy crap, you're just like me in a lot of ways. I'm somewhat of a germaphobe, and I hate having a busy schedule as well.