"Normal" Sexuality

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very interesting, this is the first time I've seen this inchoate feeling of mine put into words by somebody else [the way it happens all too often], that I could be talking about one thing while the person I'm chatting with, often discovered too late by me, has been chatting about something entirely different. it almost reminds me of the scenario of the elderly patient and somewhat daft doctor discussing the patient's hypertension, with the doctor telling the patient he has to get his blood pressure down, to which the patient replies, "pressure brown?" to which the doctor says "no, we'll take care of THAT problem after we deal with your blood pressure."

I was thinking of the "2 different conversations" thing, and this actually happens to me often with my husband, I will give my opinion about a certain thing, and he takes the conversation to a different "level" or subject (related to the original subject in some way, but which was not what I meant to discuss to begin with), and we often end up arguing because of this.

I can't think of an example right now but it would be like if I mentioned Pavarotti in a certain context like you did, and then my husband would mention something else about him that is not what I was talking about to begin with (like in this case it would be his physical appearance), and we would end up arguing about this other thing instead (like if you had ended up arguing about his appearance). Its really tireing.

theres no such thing as Normal Sexuality, everyone has different preferences, fetishes and orientations.theres litterally no such thing as normal. for example

im a Bisexual Graysexual Aromantic genderqueer. i feel sexual attraction to both genders but no sexual desire for either and no desire and no desire or like for kissing, hugging, and dates for either gender but occasionally i feel Romantic Desire.i also have no gender preference for myself, i dont see myself as a girl or a boy, but i am physically a girl.

I know what the OP means. Sometimes people are so dull, the only thing they can think of to applaud or criticise someone over is their physical appearance. I think people on the spectrum are probably slightly more likely to be able to, say, have a friend with a port wine stain on their face, notice it when they first meet each other but then never really "see it" after that until other people point it out and remind them.