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olympiadis
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08 Nov 2014, 10:05 pm

ImAnAspie wrote:
Sometimes in life, some people are of such a look that everyone looks upon and says "That poor ugly bastard!" It happens and in my case, that's the case!! !
I don't need to ask everybody on earth, 'would they like to taste arsenic'' to know the answer!


This may sound simplistic, but if you think your appearance is a valid concern as impediment for relationship building, then perhaps you should consider pursuing relationships with blind people, or perhaps blind aspies even.

It make sense that in order to experience another being without the filter of shallowness, then you have to be willing to put yourself on the same playing field.



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10 Nov 2014, 8:30 am

What's wrong with your appearance? I see nothing wrong with it.



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13 Nov 2014, 9:29 pm

voleregard wrote:
Seems your mind is made up, but maybe someone else reading this is open to hearing feedback. Girls can pick up on how you perceive yourself. They're tuning in to all the signals you're giving off that you don't even realize you're sending. And if they're picking up on the same type of energy you're sending out here in these posts,

ImAnAspie wrote:
As I've often said, I want to be wanted - without actually being had. I just feel incredibly left out like life's against me.


of you thinking you want to be liked and desired, but not obtained, what's the point in that for them? Why should they go after something that is just going to give them no possibility of attaining? Can you see how that would be a deterrent?

Edit: Check this out. So true: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P53rE9dPGGI
Edit2: and this may help: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zSDAOocAHXg


Yeah but she doesn't know that about me. She does know I'm an Aspie. Maybe that turned her against me?


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13 Nov 2014, 9:31 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
What's wrong with your appearance? I see nothing wrong with it.


That's because you're a male. That's what all men say but apparently, women see me differently.

I have however had occasions where (apparently) a woman has flirted with me and I've not noticed. People who were with me tell me later. Pity they don't tell me at the time.

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13 Nov 2014, 9:36 pm

Maybe you could ask if she has any single friends that she could set you up with



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17 Nov 2014, 3:36 am

FireyInspiration wrote:
Maybe you could ask if she has any single friends that she could set you up with


Maybe but I think she's only friends with her old school mates and they're all married from the sounds of it. Besides, I'm back in my "Don't want no one!! !" phase. It comes and goes.


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