Psychiatrist doesn't think I'm autistic - now what?

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23 Aug 2015, 4:49 pm

skibum wrote:
I don't believe in shopping until you get the diagnosis you want but in this particular case, from what you described, I think it would be a very good idea to get a second opinion from someone who specializes in ASD in adult females. From what you described, this particular psychiatrist seems very uneducated and every rather stupid to me. Find someone whom you know is competent. You may have to do some research to find that person. Then get assessed again. I don't believe in shopping for a diagnoses but I do believe in shopping for a competent diagnostician.



It was useful for me to lodge with my friend who lives under the South London & Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust area for my ADHD DX, as, where I was at the time, Oxleas NFT, would have had to sought an IFR to be sent to SLaM... In the UK, mental services are a postcode lottery



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23 Aug 2015, 5:03 pm

12341234 wrote:
skibum wrote:
I don't believe in shopping until you get the diagnosis you want but in this particular case, from what you described, I think it would be a very good idea to get a second opinion from someone who specializes in ASD in adult females. From what you described, this particular psychiatrist seems very uneducated and every rather stupid to me. Find someone whom you know is competent. You may have to do some research to find that person. Then get assessed again. I don't believe in shopping for a diagnoses but I do believe in shopping for a competent diagnostician.



It was useful for me to lodge with my friend who lives under the South London & Maudsley NHS Foundation Trust area for my ADHD DX, as, where I was at the time, Oxleas NFT, would have had to sought an IFR to be sent to SLaM... In the UK, mental services are a postcode lottery

Sorry, I am in the US so I don't understand most of the acronyms you mentioned. It is difficult for me to understand your post but I kind of get the impression that in the UK it is rather difficult to shop for a diagnostician. If that is the case it's a darned shame.


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23 Aug 2015, 5:09 pm

gamerdad wrote:
Also keep in mind the possibility that you could be on the spectrum, but not diagnoseable. Many people display autistic traits. But a psychological diagnosis requires more than just the expression of those traits, it requires that they impair you to a degree that you need some sort of support. People who have consistently autistic traits, but fall below that hurdle (which is subjective and will vary from one psychologist to another) are considered to be part of the Broad Autistic Phenotype. That knowledge might help soften some of the blow if you continue to get negative diagnoses.


I have just had precisely the same situation in the UK (read the thread I started on " Adult diagnosis, Do Doctors really know what they are doing?"
http://wrongplanet.net/forums/viewtopic.php?t=290466

gamerdads comment above is precisely the point. I do not think that under the new DSM5 guidelines and the NHS triage system that my mild Aspergers and `mostly` coping in everyday life qualify under the criteria for issues to be (what they consider as) life affecting or needing levels 1,2 or 3 support (ie 1. lots, 2. considerable and 3.some) . In other words not serious enough to require resources (funding). I also wonder that if they acknowledge us they are legally bound to spend money on supporting us and hence will triage the money for only the most severe or obvious/observable cases.

I seriously question the will, the skill and the diagnostic tools available to diagnose adults.
Its not you!........

A `learned` Professor expert in Aspergers told me that I was not Autistic after a 20 minute chat!.
Note he used the word Autistic not Aspergers, and he (like you) did this BEFORE he had calculated my test scores AQ EQ etc which all had me categorically in the Aspie range.... what kind of illogical method is that!... we are fuming and I have written to complain (NB. After 4 hours of meetings & discussion, my personal therapist (an Aspergers expert too) sees me as having many Aspergers traits).

These situations are a mess and you have every right to be pissed off about this.

Read up, trust yourself and those around you.... you are the real expert.

Like an earlier poster succinctly said, if you really need validation o rthe actual medical support through diagnosis get a 2nd opinion, OR
begin to learn to accept your own judgement... and forge your own path... I am beginning to realise that the latter may be more useful to me and the former could be just expending a lot of energy to gt something that may ultimately be untrustworthy anyway!