kraftiekortie wrote:
Ann....I'm sorry this happened to you
You are not failed.
Thank you. You are right. It's early innings yet.
underwater wrote:
Perhaps talk to some other person in the kindergarten, just not the one who picked on you? They are not a hive mind, chances are that this person will have picked on someone else there.
I think you are right about this. Out of all of them and there must be 20 or so, she was the only one to react this way.
Jacoby wrote:
I guess they'd rather you just be visibly miserable and hate kids while you do the job just to be safe?
This is going to be my new strategy:
The other cleaners wear mp3 headphones, which we are allowed to do while working if we only use one earpiece. So I have bought an mp3 player. The last time I had such a device was in the '80s - it was a sony walkman. Anyone remember those? They played cassettes, because cds hadn't been invented yet.
Anyway the sound quality on this mp3 is amazing.
I am going to disappear into my own world.
My co-workers are all sullen and non-talking, maybe they have had similar experiences.
underwater wrote:
"Everybody here hates you" is bullying 101. Don't fall for it.
It really is. I won't fall for it.
Quote:
androbot01 wrote:
I am a failed experiment. Time to go.
Please don't take this so seriously. Your words worry me. Don't assume everybody is ganging up on you. I used to think the same way. Now I force myself to separate groups into individuals, and to question a lot of the things people tell me.
This person is really not worth making life decisions over.
Yes, break things down and it becomes clearer.