My Theory on Facial Expression and Staring
facial expressions mean nothing to me. people will die and then their skulls will be revealed and those facial expressions can be superimposed on the skulls, and whatever. they're dead and gone into the cement of history.
how many facial expressions have been pulled since time immemorial when people began being able to pull faces?
they all dissolved into nothingness and so will every present and future facial expression, and thank goodness that knowledge relieves me from the burden of looking at people's expressions.
ResilientBrilliance wrote:
goatfish57 wrote:
You are correct. Controlling your face is a big deal. My expressions have gotten in trouble from time to time. I let my guard down and the real face appears.
I wear a mask in public. A face that is appropriate for the situation. The one that works the best is happy beagle face. I practice it frequently and it rarely fails.
Wearing a happy face makes me feel better. Although, it can be exhausting at times.
I wear a mask in public. A face that is appropriate for the situation. The one that works the best is happy beagle face. I practice it frequently and it rarely fails.
Wearing a happy face makes me feel better. Although, it can be exhausting at times.
Unfortunately, I have no solution other than to fake an expression 24/7 which sounds exhausting. Is that even humanly possible? It's not fair that I can't wear my normal facial expression without being stared at all the time. And then there's the fact that it can affect one's ability to work as well if people perceive your facial expression as weird, creepy, or whatever it is they feel.
I just smile perpetually... by thinking of something funny or happy. Not because I'm actually "happy" lol. It works out.
zkydz wrote:
I was thinking about this as I went to sleep. It just seems scary to have anybody tinker with the brain like this. If there are ANY mistakes or problems, there ain't no 'undo' or fixing it.
Also, even with the difficulties I've had in life, I still prefer to stick with the devil I know. I don't need to learn how to understand all new things and THEN compensate for that also.
Spending time figuring all the new characteristics,"What am I feeling and is that a new 'thing'", and then have to adapt to the new changes.
Just so scary on so many levels.
Also, even with the difficulties I've had in life, I still prefer to stick with the devil I know. I don't need to learn how to understand all new things and THEN compensate for that also.
Spending time figuring all the new characteristics,"What am I feeling and is that a new 'thing'", and then have to adapt to the new changes.
Just so scary on so many levels.
Yeah, I think an earlier episode described a man who had been blind from birth or very early childhood. He'd learned to ski somehow (maybe with some sort of sonar sensor helmet). In adulthood, he went through a surgery that restored his sight. He found it really overwhelming and maybe not as positive an experience as he expected. He had difficulties in recognizing people, and sometimes just had to shut his eyes to rest his mind. He still went skiing--blindfolded, because he couldn't process the visual information enough.
And I agree with Slave--what if they miss? What if it works, but it turns out to cause brain cancer, dementia, or seizures? What if this is used in an unethical way?
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b9 wrote:
facial expressions mean nothing to me. people will die and then their skulls will be revealed and those facial expressions can be superimposed on the skulls, and whatever. they're dead and gone into the cement of history.
how many facial expressions have been pulled since time immemorial when people began being able to pull faces?
they all dissolved into nothingness and so will every present and future facial expression, and thank goodness that knowledge relieves me from the burden of looking at people's expressions.
how many facial expressions have been pulled since time immemorial when people began being able to pull faces?
they all dissolved into nothingness and so will every present and future facial expression, and thank goodness that knowledge relieves me from the burden of looking at people's expressions.
Yeah sometimes I think I'm being too hard on myself for not being able to read facial expressions. I wish it didn't bother me so much.
Unfortunate_Aspie_ wrote:
ResilientBrilliance wrote:
goatfish57 wrote:
You are correct. Controlling your face is a big deal. My expressions have gotten in trouble from time to time. I let my guard down and the real face appears.
I wear a mask in public. A face that is appropriate for the situation. The one that works the best is happy beagle face. I practice it frequently and it rarely fails.
Wearing a happy face makes me feel better. Although, it can be exhausting at times.
I wear a mask in public. A face that is appropriate for the situation. The one that works the best is happy beagle face. I practice it frequently and it rarely fails.
Wearing a happy face makes me feel better. Although, it can be exhausting at times.
Unfortunately, I have no solution other than to fake an expression 24/7 which sounds exhausting. Is that even humanly possible? It's not fair that I can't wear my normal facial expression without being stared at all the time. And then there's the fact that it can affect one's ability to work as well if people perceive your facial expression as weird, creepy, or whatever it is they feel.
I just smile perpetually... by thinking of something funny or happy. Not because I'm actually "happy" lol. It works out.
Thinking of something funny is a good idea. THe smile probably looks more sincere that way.
I started a new job today at a deli. I'm college educated but can't find a job and it really boils down to my lack of connections and social tools. Anyway, I was nervous but also confident that I knew what to do (smile). I smiled the whole time. An hour and a half into work a lady comes in and I greet her and try to make eye contact. She says "are you OK?" I say yes. A few seconds later she asks "Are you sure you're OK?" And I say yes again. It's funny now that I think of it but at the time it really pissed me off. Here I am smiling and it wasn't working! I will continue smiling as a resting face but I think that when I start talking to someone, smiling isn't enough. I simply don't have the "normal" social facial expressions. It seems making eye contact is useless since they'll just get creeped out anyway.
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