Your own description suggests me you are NOT aspie, anyway, I´m absolutely sure my oppinion about it, is completely irrelevant. I will never look for a kind of medical diagnosis telling me I am aspie or not, so I suggest you not to look for it, in fact, psys knows less tnan us about aspies, what leads to a great point, that no matter what peope will think, you will believe you are aspie or not, I´m very sure you will be, very soon, able to decide about it, but before deciding it, enjoy aspie people, and wellcome!