Yigeren wrote:
She strikes me as a highly intelligent and often serious person, and I am guessing that she probably would like to be taken more seriously and respected for those qualities. I think sometimes small women in general do have trouble being taken seriously and thought of as mature adults, only because they often appear to be younger.
Thank you Yigeren, that's very flattering
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I do have a humorous streak, but it would be nice to be taken more seriously when I'm clearly (to me anyway) not trying to be funny. One example I can think of happened several months ago. The same boy I mentioned came up and asked, "What happens if you pour water on the floor in the freezer?" I could tell it wasn't rhetorical and that he actually wanted an answer so he could set up the punchline for a joke (in this case, one of my co-workers had tried to wash the freezer floor and wound up chipping ice for several hours) so I said, "Assuming the freezer is functioning at optimum efficiency, the water will freeze." He immediately started laughing, and when I asked him why, he repeated what I'd said, "Assuming the freezer is functioning at optimum efficiency."
My diction may have been a little overly formal for the situation, which may have been the reason for his laughter, but if he was laughing at the fact that I'd qualified my statement, that makes no sense. It wouldn't be accurate to simply say, "the water will freeze" because it doesn't take all the possibilities into account; if the freezer were unplugged and thawed out, or broken and not functioning properly, the water wouldn't freeze. I find that a lot of NTs I know gloss over or skip important details, and it drives me crazy.
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