zkydz wrote:
JakeASD wrote:
I have always considered myself to be a terribly stupid individual, and my C grades at school validates this perception of mine.
That is wrong on so many levels I cannot not begin to tell you. But, I shall try a couple with real world examples that you can take to heart.
I was the one who should have been the stellar scholar. I had Ds, Fs and Cs. They never tried to reach me.
Do not equate yourself on just some metric.
Sighing here-
I think about what was so wrong with my schooling and it makes me cringe and I tutor sometimes and it makes me down right angry to see students AGAIN still treated so poorly like they are trash and the way they feel in school and how much the achieve doesn't seem to matter- but that's a side note...
Anyway,
I look back at my test scores and there was CLEARLY something wrong and no one did anything. Moreover, I spent SO MUCH of my time confused and afraid because I am realizing I have some intense receptive language processing issues : /. And I just had a problem with receptive language as a kid- I would literally score (on those national tests) at the 37% for my age group in for example understanding of language like the grammar and mechanics and such but then again literally scored off the charts in 99% for vocabulary and science sections- which to me made little sense. But clearly when u see a kid like that you change the curriculum and help them- no they just told me I was an idiot and I never paid attention and that I was stupid and being in school was worthless for me. I wasn't tryin and I should be ashamed- blah blah blah.
But then it made me so angry to see them Doing that to the kid I was helping because she was really bright but had some problems- I intercepted and told them what was really going on but still they basically did almost nothing to help her >___>...
I hate how they judge people so terribly.
But it makes me really think about all these ideas they have about non-verbal people, that they don't have anything to say or aren't thinking when that's probably not the case...
I remember not talking and being non-verbal (only a little bit though) and just idk I just never talked lol but I was processing what was around me...
All this rambling to say an IQ score or test score or any metric really doesn't give you a full picture of someone. It can be helpful sometimes I think but it doesn't capture a lot of stuff. The numbers are indicative of something, however, they aren't the end of the game.